夫婦情感 今日: 1 | 主題: 42770

積分: 67993

41^#

發表於 06-12-29 16:29 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

Imcheung,

記得我仔細時都有過要媽媽，不要爸爸時．．．但我即時同阿仔講：爸爸係我最愛既人，你唔要/鐘意爸爸,媽媽會唔開and都唔會愛/鐘意你。其實爸爸好賜你，你都要賜爸爸。

在家時都是在看電視看報紙或打電腦，有時不想小朋友吵到他，我便帶他們回房玩及安排他們睡眠（好似變成是女人之必然工作啦）...............其實你咁樣真係有d分隔左佢地, 你應該多d搵老公幫手。

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊

積分: 1048

42^#

發表於 06-12-29 16:30 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

PCCW2319 寫道:
如果佢要學就唔係今時今日至學啦！

如果佢有第三者,未必會同講faithful to you la, 佢應該當冇事發生，then everyday go to 2 places.

你不去拎D玩健身、纖體宣傳單張、報名表額,今晚同佢一齊睇，叫佢幫手揀，打開話題啦。不過如果佢仍然木口木面，你都唔好，記住比D耐性。

really as you said, whenever he use his "wood mouth wood face" while i'm trying to open conversation, i will get angry and mad.....then i leave the area. i guess now i will hv to try to hold my anger but it's hard for me to give him smile while i'm still in pain. i even will think when i can't contact him in office he is in the "girl house" tim.....

you see, how bad is my trust to my husband....

i guess now when you reply my message need to type pegbrian, sometimes i confuse you answering me or imcheung.

eeb,
if i'm in indonesia, usually we will bring baby to hv dinner every saturday night then almost every suday is our movie day (only two of us) but only movie loh...after that, i hv to go back home cook la.....lives pretty boring here, only place can go is shopping mall, can't like in HK walk around on street, those natives will look at us strangely.....

私人傳訊

積分: 67993

43^#

發表於 06-12-29 16:52 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

pegbrian,

好彩你聰明o者！

知我同你講緊野。

佢 (your lo) e+同你一樣 in bad mood，以大男人作風通常會面木口木面。你唔一定假笑，但千祈唔好

law
不過我諗你主動 "聊"佢傾多幾次計，佢會心軟 (因為佢知你大女人，你咁做已經好難得)。

如果怕講野會鬧交...........不如用寫啦！送佢返工出門時將張紙放落佢西裝袋，叫佢上車至睇。

呢個時候，應該多動作.......做d佢想你改善既野，我諗你老公有眼睇，知你努力中。加油！
:-P

(p.s. 個short trip係咪真係cancel 左啦 ? )

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊

lmcheung

積分: 4313

44^#

發表於 06-12-29 17:12 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

我老公約了我與子女今晚外出吃飯，是表示他都是喜歡家的，但可以如何令他離開那年輕女人？（現在是在同一機構工作的，但不同部門）他們又可以時常見面，在工作時間有沒有見面我又不知道！
其實我是知那女人電話，好不好打電話找她談談？（不是要反面那種）

私人傳訊

積分: 67993

45^#

發表於 06-12-29 17:23 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

我覺得唔好打電話找她談（even不是要反面那種），你都係等今晚仔女訓左後，同佢傾下先。

所以今晚dinner盡量令d氣氛好d,令佢覺得仔女 & you 都係愛佢及需要佢既愛。

其實你上次寫比佢點補求方法，係你自己認為有既問題，定係佢提出過你地(or對你本身不滿)存在既問題？今晚好好同佢傾。

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊

eeb

積分: 51073

至尊種植勳章醒目開學勳章畀面勳章環保接龍勳章

46^#

發表於 06-12-29 17:33 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

If you 2 going out every Sunday, the relationship should be quite good, even it's a routine movie out. ?-( ?-( ?-(

If the short trip is really cancelled, at least you can organise something, maybe a surprise party or a day out, with him and spend some quality time with him. Dress up and let him know you cherish the time with him, make sure you don't give him hard time. You guys should make a perfect happy couple!!!

Do you live in a suburb with just locals or somehow near the town and can make and meet Chinese friends?

識網友只限吹下水、交換下資訊、發揮網力，邊個認真就邊個輸。

私人傳訊

mrsegg

積分: 1967

47^#

發表於 06-12-29 23:56 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

PEGBRIAN：

你點呀？可好嗎？有沒有好的進展？

私人傳訊

HKU_LLM

複式洋房

積分: 186

48^#

發表於 06-12-30 11:52 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

For Pegbrian,

I am a man of 41, I think you are in a an extreme danger position. My wife's character is alost the same with you. Big woman and always black face, a man will then think, "You think you're the only woman in the world?" And if a chance comes, ( another woman who do not mind to have sex with a married man like me), then your marriage is seriouly at risk. I started with an affair with another woman 3 years ago, I am very happy and satisfy with this arrangement, I did not divorce and not let my wife knows, just treat her "say ge"(died), she can still be Mrs. XXX, educating my kids, but I don't talk with her, I will not care her.(Just like you case, may be this is your development). Sometimes, I pose as go to work(but take a leave at office) and happy with my mistress.

I don't know you will sacre with that, but as a man, I am no harm, I expected the worst "divorced".

I put to you, what about if your husband say to you, "I have another woman". I think you will accept his things and start over with him again.

Do something that makes him happy, you must surely what makes him happy??? No matter a gift, dup bone(massage), proactive in sex?? There must be something, If you always need face, you might be a loser. Think about it, IMCheung is one of that kind.

Sorry for both of you if you feels not happy,

Master of Laws

私人傳訊

積分: 1048

49^#

發表於 06-12-30 15:09 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

dear all,
last night he ask me out for movie, although we didn't like before holding hands during movie time but he did hold my hand while we're walking in the mall. We talked a bit in the car and at night we even ML.... I still hven't ask him "unfaithful" and sleep outside question, still confuse hv to ask him or not although he said that kind of seriously, 唔太似衝口而,唔係大聲嗌。。。我唔想係開始有D進展時又同佢嗌交﹐ 但自己又控制唔住成日諗“unfaithful" 既事。。。令我都唔可以完全開心同對佢一心一意甘生活下去, 好似自欺欺人。。。依家都有聽大家既說話5.30am陪佢食早餐﹐但自今次坦白依幾日都未有goodbye kiss 囉。。。我估要慢慢黎。。。我又唔想做主動﹐因想佢自己真心想kisss先至kiss 啦。。。

HKU_LLM
First of all, thank you very much for giving me your advise. But i really want to ask you as a someone husband, do u think thats the right thing to do ( means cheated on your own wife)? Do you still pretend in love with your wife at home and still can hv sex with her??? If you really don't like her, why not just honestly tell her your feeling and get divorce and let you both free??? I mean why you still have to give your wife a hope of having a good relationship couple life???

I'm sorry to question you these but i just think NO MATTER HOW she is not good or black face, she is not deserve to have this kind of betrayed affair while you think and feel happy to do that....especially (remember) you're the one ask her to marry you and she 辛苦地give you kids, that's not easy thing to do...May be you should think what's the reason she always black face to you, may be she can feel your affair, know you betray her??

by the way, i don't always black face to my husband, only when we're fighting..

私人傳訊

積分: 67993

50^#

發表於 06-12-30 15:53 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

pegbrian,

努力！加油！

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊

積分: 67993

51^#

發表於 06-12-30 16:03 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

pegbrian,

其實你試下同佢講：其實如果你想我改善d乜 or 我有d乜做, 唔岩。不如下次唔好用指責口氣同我講，你都知我脾氣唔好，好容易

駁番你轉頭。咁就成日鬧交，我唔想咁。

你試下用提議方式, 用溫柔d既語氣同我講：我希望你、我想下...............咁我會容易接受 & 盡量做。

:-P

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊

積分: 67993

52^#

發表於 06-12-30 16:05 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

pegbrian,

s/b 你試下用提議方式, 用溫柔d既語氣同我講：我希望你,,,、我想你...............咁我會容易接受 & 盡量做。

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊

yvonnefrances

禁止訪問

積分: 1200

53^#

發表於 06-12-30 17:47 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

提示: 作者被禁止或刪除內容自動屏蔽

私人傳訊

積分: 67993

54^#

發表於 06-12-30 20:38 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

換轉係我．．我會同我老公講「我唔知你而家想唔想鍚我，但我知我自己好想鍚你，然後就輕輕的鍚落去佢個咀度，跟住就好似少女般咁含羞的走左去，再用眼尾睇下佢有咩反應囉」

換轉係我．．我會同我老公講「老公你呢幾日返工前, 都唔記得左做一d野」然後自己郁下個咀，暗示下！

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊

積分: 1048

55^#

發表於 06-12-31 00:06 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

各位﹐
唉﹗﹗ :cry: 今晚我度

又黎啦﹐ 差D可以煎雙蛋呀﹗﹗

之前同大家講過每個星期六都一齐出去食晚飯﹐ 佢今日放2。30 大概3點或是 3。30應到家﹐ 但3。30 都未到﹐ 我就打俾佢問係邊﹐佢話同D係越南同事食野同傾下﹐ 我話會唔會好耐﹐佢話唔知住﹐ 但我自己諗大概5點乜都講完啦。。。我仲帶埋仔仔落樓等佢返。。等呀等呀﹐ 天都就黑都未返﹐ 我返上房時見到有個sms 話佢唔返黎食﹐ 會同D 同事食埋先返﹗

嘩﹗我度火即上腦

即刻打電話找佢﹐ 點知一路都無人聽﹐ 由六點打到8點都無人聽﹗但我知佢係同D同事一齐既。。。嬲嬲地﹐ 帶仔仔出街﹐ 以為佢收都missed call就會打返黎啦﹐ 但都無直至我返到屋企幾分鐘佢就到啦。。。

仲以為佢會解釋一下﹐ 點知我問知唔知我打俾佢﹐ 佢話我知但電話留低左係架車度﹐ 所以無接。。。。雖然極度軒強但都算可接收﹐ 我就話下次早D講﹐ 打俾我唔好只係sms甘(唔惡地講)﹐ 我lie話其實我同個仔已換好衫等你返嫁。。。但佢竟然係無乜反應好似唔至在甘。。。。

我之後﹐ 又著得sexy D﹐ 佢一直都想我甘樣著多D﹐ 落樓陪佢睇波﹐但佢竟然叫我都係上反去啦﹐ 我想睇波﹐ 但我話唔緊要啦﹐ 陪下你囉。。。如果之前佢真係會好多毛手毛腳﹐ 但依家又唔會哦。。。過一陣佢因太眼訓﹐ 話上樓啦﹐ 係張床上﹐ 佢背住我話唔好啦﹐ 想訓聽日先﹐ 佢以為我要﹐ 但其實我想試下佢要唔要咋嗎。。。甘我就迫佢只係goodnight kiss囉。。。甘佢就訓左。。。

你地話係唔係好嬲呀﹗﹗我一最僧係打電話尋唔到人或無人聽嫁啦。。。 :tongue:

我仲以為經過尋晚movie and ml 可以打開疆局又sweet 啦﹐ 點知唔係嫁。。。愛愛係無幫助。。大家會否覺得我太急進﹖我真係唔知點先做到你地講既拍拖感覺﹐點做都要佢有反應先得嫁﹐ 如果唔係﹐ 我就好似變成好cheap會唔會令佢覺得我仲討厭﹖

係我由香港返黎前﹐ 佢email 我話帶希望我可以早D叫仔仔訓﹐ 等大家夜晚多D時間一齐﹐但依家我做到啦﹐ 佢都無理我﹐ 甘點解呢﹖﹖
真係唔可以相信佢同兩個月前既佢差甘遠。。

各位﹐我仲想問下大家是否覺得我應該再傾下﹐ 我意思係話同佢講我已考慮左佢之前既提議﹐ 我會盡量改善﹐ 但亦希望佢要好似以前甘對我﹐。。。。。你地話好唔好﹖

但我知佢依家好多答案都係唔知呀唔知呀﹐ 我真係想係2007先解決依一件事。。

私人傳訊

積分: 1048

56^#

發表於 06-12-31 00:07 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

:cry:

私人傳訊

積分: 67993

57^#

發表於 06-12-31 00:24 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

我仲以為經過尋晚movie and ml 可以打開疆局又sweet 啦﹐ 點知唔係嫁。。。愛愛係無幫助。。大家會否覺得我太急進﹖我真係唔知點先做到你地講既拍拖感覺﹐點做都要佢有反應先得嫁﹐ 如果唔係﹐ 我就好似變成好cheap會唔會令佢覺得我仲討厭﹖

你比較急進左。點解你唔問今日傾成點？係咪有問題？你好似好倦、好唔開心咁？

各位﹐我仲想問下大家是否覺得我應該再傾下﹐ 我意思係話同佢講我已考慮左佢之前既提議﹐ 我會盡量改善﹐ 但亦希望佢要好似以前甘對我﹐。。。。。你地話好唔好﹖----------------好！！

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊

積分: 67993

58^#

發表於 06-12-31 00:33 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

pegbrian,

其實你老公係生意人，好多突發性既野佢都未必想，你要體諒。

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊

積分: 67993

59^#

發表於 06-12-31 00:47 |只看該作者

Re: 請各位男人同女人都俾D意見俾我。。

明天係Sunday, 又係一個好機會, 好亨受家庭樂。俾d時間大家，俾d耐性，唔好想一步登天。

天空之城, 快樂之地

私人傳訊