I also had my son after I got married for more than 10 years. All these years, there were only a few years that I really wanted to have children.
Ever since I started to travel extensively, I became so self-centered and rejected the idea of being a mother. However, my husband was the one who never gave up. Therefore our deal was if I could then I would .........
When I found out I was preganant, to tell you the truth, I was VERY UNHAPPY...........Now I am VERY VERY VERY HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, I guess I am lucky to have a job that would allow me to spend more time with my son. After all, I only work 190 days a year, which really gives me quite some time to enjoy my motherhood.
Do you get irritated if your maid is tooooooo OBSESSED with you child?
I do. Especially for my husband. He is very uncomfortable to see my maid being carried away with all the details about my son. She is so lost and sometimes she feels she is the mother. That scares me.....and my husband.
What about your maid?????
Yes, Anita. I called you last night. Will call you agian.