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Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

Actually, I knew what she cried for. Most of the time, I will say, 'Dont cry, bebe, mummy will be with u soon'. After that she will cry more loudly to draw my attention.

But yesterday, I was very very angry about the mess. She threw the rice from her mouth intentionally, not threw the rice from the bowl by accident.

She knew I was upset about the mess. Because I will ask her to look what she did.

For example, this morning after her 4oz milk, she vomited the milk out. Of course I was angry! She knew it and said, ‘clean! Mammy clean!’ Because of my angry, I just left the room. After I’d left, Portman opened the door and got out of the room. I said to her that you have to finish your milk by yourself, mummy was very angry. Then she held the bottle and finished the milk. (This is the first time she fed herself)

I think she is smart which was trying to test my limit.

鍾薏媽媽寫道:
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ccmching 寫道:
Kitchu,
聴到博博喊都無理到 =>係唔得ge！小朋友喊一定要check下o羊事，知道佢安唔安全嘛！ OK，無危險喇，就慢慢去做反應，但要比小朋友知道您回應緊佢。這樣您跟她才會産生良好溝通。小朋友反應係矛大人o禁快，但爲免令他們失去安全感，我們要很跨張地向他們示意您是有求必應的。

如果案件重演，我會：
1。聽到喊聲＝》第一時間看看（偷看就可以）發生什麽事情（但必須立刻行動，因爲真的有危險，您可以做適當處理）
2。OK，原來博博跌左隻碗，搞到成地飯（注：她應該係驚慌的）
3。您應該在樓上大聲講：『博博，o羊事呀！媽咪o向道，唔駛怕，我黎緊』
4。這樣，您可以繼續換您的屎片桶，估計應該會是很快就完成
5。回到博博處：『博博：什麽事呀！拿不實個碗，跌嗮d飯落地？係唔係呀？如果不是這個原因，應繼續猜猜還有什麽原因。

好吧！您覺得嬲, 是因爲什麽原因，因爲博博喊得您好煩？還是您嬲她把飯跌到一地都是您嬲都要知道自己嬲什麽，我來幫您解開問題，好嗎？

您忍唔住打咗佢一下, 之後走咗。。。＝》博博很太細個喇，我肯定她是不知道發生什麽事情，一頭霧水，下次再發生類似的情况是會存在的，小孩子真的要慢慢教，跟博博溝通好d，您會覺得跟她一起是一件很愉快的事喔
Sue

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Sue, 你1定係好有耐性ge mama, 你仔仔係咪好乖ga??
有時自己都想控制下ge, 但天生急性子, 唯有慢慢練~~

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發表於 07-3-13 19:16 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

After I got married, I feel my mum misses me less but she is always very happy to see my c6! And I feel my dad misses me more, he talks to me on the phone longer than my mum (but when I was younger my mum talked more)!

Kitchu 寫道:
Yes, she always said her daughter is 'daddy girl'!

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發表於 07-3-13 19:18 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

Yee ma,

I just thought you are busy with cleaning the house!

Did u亂唸嘢? Class III?

鍾薏媽媽寫道:

不過個人有嘢做係好d ge!!
好似我咁, 個個都話我係太得閒, 所以sin成日亂唸嘢

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發表於 07-3-13 19:20 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

No ar! when I was in HK, I didn't have time to sleep!

鍾薏媽媽寫道:
你係hk有冇咁ga??

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發表於 07-3-13 19:21 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

OK la!!

鍾薏媽媽寫道:
r b好like湯飯bor... 我今日都有食翠玉瓜
博聞肯唔肯食arh??

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發表於 07-3-13 19:22 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

argee 好多時佢地係試你的底線,所以儘量心平氣和,作出明確指令,令她明白..

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Kitchu 寫道:
Actually, I knew what she cried for. Most of the time, I will say, 'Dont cry, bebe, mummy will be with u soon'. After that she will cry more loudly to draw my attention.

But yesterday, I was very very angry about the mess. She threw the rice from her mouth intentionally, not threw the rice from the bowl by accident.

She knew I was upset about the mess. Because I will ask her to look what she did.

For example, this morning after her 4oz milk, she vomited the milk out. Of course I was angry! She knew it and said, ‘clean! Mammy clean!’ Because of my angry, I just left the room. After I’d left, Portman opened the door and got out of the room. I said to her that you have to finish your milk by yourself, mummy was very angry. Then she held the bottle and finished the milk. (This is the first time she fed herself)

I think she is smart which was trying to test my limit.

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發表於 07-3-13 19:23 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

出門口時都唔係好'巢'? Let me try try sin
I can't stand for very 巢. when I was a high school students, I ironed the dress everydays, even though no one noitce about my ironing,

coz I'm not good in ironing.!

鍾薏媽媽寫道:
我宜家都極少燙3 ga, 最多咪早d著定, 出門口時都唔係好'巢'je

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發表於 07-3-13 19:24 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

hi all :[img align=left]http://www.hk-laufamily.com/_1521.gif[/img]

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發表於 07-3-13 19:24 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

could you tell me the website that I can post the pix?

鍾薏媽媽寫道:
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Kitchu 寫道:
薏媽,

我都好鐘意織冷衫嫁, 不過織得唔靚之嗎, 我比我上年既製成品你睇呀.

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同道中人wor
我開唔到你頭sin send比我個email arh :-( 你可唔可以post係le到arh???

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發表於 07-3-13 19:25 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

We registered in UK in Dec 1999, then exactly 6 months later, we went to HK to have wedding reception, then about 8 months late went to Sri Lanka to have another reception there!

Actually, on my wedding reception in HK, lots of my friends from UK (HK friends already know my dad)pointed at my dad and asked me "who is that person?" Becasue he did not look like my dad!

chu chu, you mentioned that your dad ran away, do you still keep in touch with him? Hope y

u don't mind me asking!

Kitchu 寫道:
Your daddy is so funny! My daddy looks young as well ka!

Your wedding ceremony was held in HK, then how’s your c6 side ar? Which year you had the ceremony? I'd mine in 2001.

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發表於 07-3-13 19:26 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

[img align=left]http://www.hk-laufamily.com/_1513.gif[/img]
my english is poor :-( :-( :-(

Kitchu 寫道:
you said you will help me mar! dont u?

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waiabbey 寫道:
Kitchu,
do you seriously want to practise English today?

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發表於 07-3-13 19:27 |只看該作者

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Yes ar, Yee ma,

Chung Yee is a good girl. A friend of mine has a naughty daughter. She warned me that when her daugher even more naughty when she was 2. So she warned me about it. Luckily, she has a good son!

鍾薏媽媽寫道:
我都係咁唸.... 因為c6話r b其實ok wor!!

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發表於 07-3-13 19:31 |只看該作者

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張相都有成140磅???

I'd around 120 pounds, but all the fat are kept in my belly.

My legs are slim. :mrgreen:

鍾薏媽媽寫道:
5尺4.5 je wor, 我可能係骨重啩, 因為我上次返hk, 128磅個個都話太瘦.... 我send比你地嗰張相都有成140磅ga, 你地都唔覺我好肥啩???

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Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

This is very ironic!!! Your daughter tears your 湊仔notes apart!!

Kitchu 寫道:
Sue,

Thx! Actually, I had downloaded them last year. and printed some of them out to teach my daughter. However she teared the papers or bended them!

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發表於 07-3-13 19:34 |只看該作者

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red red,

I don't think I can get a job!

Actually, if I can afford, I want to study again.

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waiabbey 寫道:
咁我諗你遲D返工, 博博返學你會好D, 不過到時你又可能掛住我哋wor .....

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Kitchu 寫道:

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發表於 07-3-13 19:38 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

red red,

this is not 湊仔notes, they are cards to teach her Chinese. this is an idea from a book of 'How to teach your child to read'
I read the book and followed the ideas from the book, but Portman........

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waiabbey 寫道:
This is very ironic!!! Your daughter tears your 湊仔notes apart!!

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發表於 07-3-13 19:42 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

佢憎D中文字

Kitchu 寫道:
red red,

this is not 湊仔notes, they are cards to teach her Chinese. this is an idea from a book of 'How to teach your child to read'
I read the book and followed the ideas from the book, but Portman........

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waiabbey 寫道:
This is very ironic!!! Your daughter tears your 湊仔notes apart!!

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發表於 07-3-13 19:43 |只看該作者

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magee009,

Sorry I'm in living room and using my c6's laptop, so no chinese input.

But don't worry, I can only write simple English.

For red red's English, you can go click here to translate them into chinese.

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magee009 寫道:
[img align=left]http://www.hk-laufamily.com/_1513.gif[/img]
my english is poor :-( :-( :-(
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發表於 07-3-13 19:44 |只看該作者

Re: 如果可以係hk生活就好la!!!!!(終極加強版~~)

magee009
hm..........she was just naughty!!

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