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[2004年或之前] 2001年4月小朋友(媽咪,爹d)請進 [複製鏈接]

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pauline.c

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

嵐嵐21,
妳地都好叻喎教識嵐嵐去vv.我諗就算妳兩公婆唔洗食件蛋糕,個心都甜哂啦!:-P
妳星期六要唔要返工呀?如果唔洗咪可以帶細囡去打針囉！

hohan,
恭喜妳就快搬新屋喇,如果果度個兒童遊戲室大的話.記住帶我地去玩吓呀.:-P
我都係兩個月前通知業主唔交租(因為佢要收番層樓自己住,所以容易話圍)費時到時等佢退番d錢咁麻煩啦.

heiheima咪,
妳多d入黎傾吓計咁就冇咁多煩惱架喇!!:-P
我以前都係沙田友黎架,宜家搬左去馬鞍山都算半個沙田友.

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Pauline.c, fannie, happy媽, jsmami :

唉! 我想女人比較容易擔心事情, d 男士們係唔會容易明白. 我都好擔心, 又要供樓又要養女, 唔知個囡將來生活點樣, 有日自己冇工做都唔知點算, 唉! 我昨天老闆叫我操刀炒左個 receptionist, 因為要cut cost, 我十分之無奈.

Hohan & heiheimama :

嘩! 你們租樓遭遇咁嚇人.

Hohan : 咁我地咪又多個聚會地方! He! He!

靖嵐 :

都係果句, 順其自然, 你可以找下一d 程度比較深學校了解下, 不過, 我個人建議係要個小朋友每天開開心心地學習.

Heiheima咪 :

我冇計劃幫佢報讀幼稚園, 會一路安排佢讀幼兒園至小學. 這是我對個女學習安排.

各位 :

我有個問題, 我發覺花囡”同理心” 不高, 我想因為佢一路都好開心地成長, 同佢一直都好受大人/小朋友們歡迎, 沒有什麼大改變, 真係萬千竉愛在一身(請不要誤會, 我不是自大, 只想講個問題背景), 形成佢不太懂去體諒別人, 或感受到別人不高興. 舉例, 有時, 我/老公同佢玩時, 她一時大力弄到我們身體好痛, 我地會講和表現好痛, 但佢一點都感受不到, 仲會大笑或再打多一次到傷口到, 直至我大哭起來, 佢才靜下來望下你再繼而哭, 不過我相信佢係驚多過明白我受傷痛, 都唔知有什麼辦法另佢好d ?

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

各位,

我買新樓時都係諗住有個club house同公園比個仔可以玩,同埋又近亞媽,希望收樓時唔會失望,到期時一定歡迎各位.

我而家都開始揾學校資料啦,真係頭都暈.

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

靖嵐：

聰聰仍然返星期二、四10:45-12:15，可能佢地尋日已經見過面喇。不過佢尋日又喊，可能因為我又同佢報左碧湖間嘉德麗，我陪佢返左兩次，返番好時光就唔適應。

嘉德麗果個叫親子綜合班，可以俾家長陪，逢星期一三五1:30至2:30。其實兩間都無咩學，志在俾佢有D群體生活。

聽日嘉德麗有個親子同樂日9月6日1-4pm，有遊戲玩、有抽獎、紀念品、同小熊維尼拍照，歡迎所有小朋友參加，得閒都同靖嵐黎啦！

我都覺得聰聰好無聊，但我都唔知教佢D咩，佢又從來無要求要做D咩學D咩，淨係識得玩，但係又玩到無趣，成日攪呢樣果樣。究竟點樣幫佢打發時間好呢？

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

花花,
我都有你個問題,有時諗,係唔係我地而家多數家庭都係一個小朋友,所以樣樣都以佢為先,要乜有乜,唔懂得真惜,我個仔一發脾氣就會話唔要媽咪或嗲哋,我已經同佢講媽咪嗲哋得一個,唔可以唔要,你冇左嗲哋媽咪就冇人照顧你錫你,會唔開心架,但係佢都好似唔明咁

靖嵐,
真係好羡慕你個女咁聽話,學野咁快,其實你應該繼續教佢各方知識,嘅然佢咁吸收. :-P

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

花花,hohan,
要解決這個問題,我奶奶,老爺,阿爸,阿媽都有同一個提議:
..................[size=medium]多生一個

諗諗佢

wfc,
小bb女出左世未?

瑩瑩,
你會唔會帶埋Jackie去旅行?

hohan,
恭喜你,就快新屋入伙,荔枝角有個公園好靚wor!我都想去.

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

sheryl,
真係多謝你比意見我, 多謝~
我個女乜書都睇, 多數係中文, 因為我英文好渣. 佢好多時d書睇幾次就記得, 所以要天天新款, 平均兩星期我就會帶靖嵐去圖書館一次, 去到睇大約十本書, 借走十二本書(用盡兩張圖書証). 日日佢都會自動自覺睇o下書, 所以佢睇書我好少會讀比佢聽, 多數都係第一次講完就算, 不過有時d故事佢都會叫我續隻續隻字讀內容佢聽再解釋, 最近佢愛上o左一本叫"誠實"o既書, 我連續讀o左三四日喇, 仲有佢每次睇nemo本書都會喊, 佢話:"魚魚唔見o左爸爸呀....", 連睇dvd都喊.
至於寫字方面, 係靖嵐自己要求寫, 我買o左一本好簡單o既連線練習比佢玩, 結果佢日日都要我比佢寫數字

花花,
靖嵐叻唔叻都冇所謂, 我都係覺得最緊要佢開心o者, 我點解會有個問題係滿足唔到佢呢....佢次次返完學問佢開心, 佢都話開心, 但就再話以後唔返, 因為返o左好多次返o左好耐喎, 只係一星期一日咋, 所以暫時我都諗住佢讀完k1先算, 如果佢真係咁叻, 我諗幼稚園老師都會幫幫手.

jsmami,
你會去夜間定日間動物園?? 我老公上次去完夜間, 佢話好睇, 但係又驚靖嵐睇唔到. 係呢, 你係買定ticket 去定去到先買?? 有冇得經d旅行社買會平d?
我都買o左個哈姆太郎燈籠比我個女, 係佢自己揀, 但我呀媽d朋友又買, 結果我屋企有五六個燈籠呀~ 有d仲有音樂, 真係有時嘈到暈~~

kanax,
係呀, 星期四我去湊靖嵐放學時都見到呀姐姐湊聰聰走, 佢好高呀~~
嘉德麗o個邊個親子班我都知有, 你唔駛返工咩?? 但係我就係想靖嵐自己返學玩o下, 因為兩歲前佢返過其他親子班, 佢都可以表達得好獨立
其實我o係屋企都唔係成日教佢o野, 一日最多都係十五分鐘, 多數時間佢都自己玩同睇書. 如果我要煮飯, 就會開vcd佢睇. 到夜晚爸爸返屋企, 爸爸就會全程湊佢. 而"教"佢o個十五分鐘, 我通常都係起身時懶床或者訓下午覺前傾o下計, 有時講返去邊度玩開唔開心, 搭幾多號巴士去邊度(我個女係車迷), 最近我就教佢d個人資料...屋企所有人名, 地址, 電話等等, 要黎準備考幼稚園. 有時佢唔想傾, 我都唔會逼佢, 咪試o下夜晚沖涼先傾.

hohan,
唔駛羨慕, 可能係佢唔足月玩完我, 上天見我咁可憐先比返少少jetso我咋, 第日就唔叻. 其實有時都好煩, 尤其講o野要小心, 有一次靖嵐o係街聽到人講粗口, 佢已經可以學到, 又好彩佢肯聽我講, 以後都冇再講.

花花, sheryl, hohan,
好彩我個女都算緊張我感受, 所以唔駛生多個, 嘻嘻~ :-P

我想要9999呀...

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

sheryl:
How are you and 博博 feeling now, take care ahh!
My family (sisters/my hubby) always said I am the 24孝mommy, but seriously compare to any of you guys, I am not even close to that

靖嵐:
Everytime I read about 靖嵐's process, I really think she is a genius!! :-P

fafa:
I guess you might need to let her see more tragedy movies to let her feel the emotion, (just kidding), I know how you feel, my son did that too sometime, I felt that he is selfish and don't feel bad for others, when I see my son like that I feel sad too, I think when they get a little older, they will understand more, don't worry, fai lui looks like an angel to me anytime.

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

靖嵐,
I booked a package with China Travel ($1,376 for 2 adults + $173 for a child) on Sep 12/13 staying at Cheong Loong Hotel. We'll go to the night safari. I plan to bring Justin to the zoo when it opens, in case he is too sleepy to stay for the night show. I think the price may be cheaper if I go during weekdays, but as papa needs to work, no "gite" la! Your daughter is really very clever. Take it step by step, a gifted child can learn things by herself without being taught. So u can save showing "flash cards" to your daughter to teach her recognize words & read. You are very lucky compared to many mums who spent ages doing that (refer to "playgroup" section on BK)! Your daughter cried seeing Nemo? She's very sentimental ah!!!

Sheryl,
Suddenly my husband & I also have the urge to 生多個, probably because I talked to a few mummies at Justin's school & found they gave birth at 40+! They were still so eager to bear a child at that age but one thing to mention, they are very "guai paw" (they are chinese who lived abroad). I worry that Justin will grow up lonely esp. when mama & papa pass away & we don't have too many relatives. Anyway it may only be a thought as I have given many things away! We won't attempt until daddy settles down with his new job. Anyone else got the same thought?????

Fafa,
Don't worry about Fa Lui. She's still young. I often point at children who are crying to Justin & ask him to comfort them saying "don't worry, it's okay". So naturally he picks up how to empathize other people. Of course Justin has hit me & daddy before, but we insisted on telling him that's not right & he has stopped it & he must say "sorry". To stop a child's misbehavior, we have to be firm & exaggerate our facial expression & voice a little to emphasize what we mean. I saw parents giggling between themselves when their children did something wrong (but funny) & that encouraged the children to continue doing so. Anyway, take it easy. Girls are better at this than boys.

hohan,
Congratulation on the new home! Don't think about the negative things la! There's a saying "money can buy u a house, but can't buy u a home"! Being able to have a complete family with everybody healthy & loving is a gift already. Enjoy it! At least u afford to own a house!

Cutie_mommy,
Guai-los/paws are like that. Let's keep up to be good mummies together!!

One thing to share with u all. Justin has made a good friend with a boy in our building on the playground! This is his 1st friend in his life! They enjoy each other's company. They share snacks & exchange toys!!! I think it's great. When it's rainy, I invited the boy to come to our place & I could see Justin's eyes were beaming with joy!!! What's best is the boy is half a year older than Justin & he is very caring. Justin can learn to be a good boy from him. That boy is mixed (German+Thai). I wonder if Justin may pick up some German free of charge!!!

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花花:

其實我個仔現在讀那間幼兒園可以直上幼稚園,但我覺得環境不太好及接返學放學嫲嫲會辛苦d,這一兩年都ok,過多兩年我估她會非常之辛苦,因她都許多病痛,成日要去覆診.所以等可否搵間好d學校比佢讀.

pauline.c

我會多d入黎搵你 :-P ,講笑.同大家傾吓啦,我都有時會去馬鞍山,到時搵你飲茶.

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大家好, 今天很高興, 因為由今天起要上三小時學, 所以打算送Justin上校車我便走了, 心想他一定會哭, 果然他知道我不陪他, 他就爭扎開始哭了, 我立即同司機講讓我跟兒子說句話, 說了Justin果然沒有哭, 接着鄰居的孩子上車, 他便哭, 這孩子和Justin同班, 每天都哭, 後來我搭小巴剛剛見到Justin在校車上乖乖地扶著扶手, 向外看, 完全沒有哭, 我真的很感動啊!

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Kanax :

你不要錯過聰聰呢個學習好時機(2-4歲), 佢呢段時間吸收力最強, 除左比佢玩外, 可以教佢一d 在他周圍有關事物, 如交通工具, 超級市場內東西認識, 動物, 劃圖畫,一些簡單家務等等, 好多野. 對佢有好大幫助, 我信”三歲定八十” 呢個理論.

Hohan, Sheryl, cutie_mommy, jsmami :

多謝你們意見同鼓勵, Sheryl : 你個辦法------都幾大件事, 亦是我心願. (Pauline.c :你話係咪？)　我唔想第時花囡長大後, 得佢一個人在世上, 冇依冇靠, 但我對現時經濟情況一d 都不睇好, 老公亦不太支持, 為有睇多幾年, 再作打算吧了. 我會繼續留意花囡的”同理心” 發展情況. 如有需要, 我會帶佢去睇d 專科, 作多些了解. 我唔想佢長大後, 做一個冇”心” 的人.

Heiheima 咪:

其實仔仔用那一類學前教育都係你們決定, 不過我贊成係找一個較方便和近的學校, 因佢地還細, 要多點照顧. 仔仔點解會多病和要覆診, 試下食多d 對佢有益食物和運動.

Jsmami：

睇到你 message, 感受到你好enjoy 和心甜, 係咪覺得 Justin 大過仔呢! 好開心睇到你話生多個, 我好支持, 有能力就生多個, 對你和justin 都好嫁.

靖嵐 :

你可否試下問政府醫院有什麼部門, 係可以check 或幫助一d gifted 小朋友. 我記得之前睇電視(好耐之前), 好似有一個部門負責呢d 工作的. 等自己知多d, 了解多d , 因我知出面私家 check 一次, 個 charge 都好貴, 仲要分好多 section．　

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花花,
給你說穿了, 我真的眼泛淚光! 接Justin放學時, 他竟然在校車睡著了, (他經常在車上dun下dun下睡著的), 沒有安全帶很危險, "sum sum"話阿仔好乖無哭, 好少人話阿仔乖嫁, 我好開心啊. 生多個好難講, 可能身边阿仔咁大既朋友都有第二個, 有d心陏陏. 我諗花女不置於要看醫生, 醫生都只會叫你生多個!

大家有無諗住中秋節帶仔女去邊賞月? 唔知維園會否好迫?

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cutie-mommy,
多謝關心!博博仍然是返下唔返下咁,每次返1hr only,就話要走. 我地咪由得佢law. 無謂搞到佢喊晒,如果這個月都是這樣,就會退學,轉返playgroup.
你囝囝是否返緊playgroup?

花花,jsmami,
如果博博d sleeping problem不是搞了我咁耐,好彩的話我就好似wfc咁x年抱兩了,不過而家又驚SARS,遲d先諗,不過遲d我又老d,高齡產婦問題多.
花花,
唔洗睇專科咁嚴重呱?!可否用story-telling 的方法.

靖嵐,花花,
靖嵐做下assessment都好,但係做完都無乜用.因為這裏是........香港.
靖嵐不但聰明,我諗佢更值得欣賞的是EQ高,羨慕死人!
其實靖嵐講得無錯,返學真係幾悶幾無聊,我陪個仔返了咁多日終於明白,有點dum時間,而且師生interaction並不多.我諗如果她在學校中能扮演像大姐姐的身份輔助老師,佢會覺得有意思d.
你點訓練到靖嵐自己看書?教下我.博博成日叫我讀比佢聽,我又無時間.又頁頁都有野問點解,搞到要好耐先讀完一次.佢係咪認得好多字所以肯自己睇,我無教個仔認字.
jsmami,
justin自己塔school bus,好叻!

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

jsmami,
我個女依家大o左好易喊, 有時佢扭計, 話扮喊就好易"bi"到d眼淚出黎, 都唔知好嬲定好笑. 上星期我媽咪借o左隻"龍貓"vcd一齊睇, 佢又睇到喊:cry:
justin好叻仔呀自己坐校車, 不過我聽我屋苑d c9講, 通常d校車會好早送d小朋友返學校, 上課前會又無無聊聊咁, 你仔仔有冇依個問題?

heiheima, pauline,
去飲茶記得叫埋我, 我都住得唔遠pauline o架

花花,
其實我都嘗試搵過, 但大部份都係適合六歲以上. 反正遲d三歲都要智能測驗, 又問o下健康院囉.... 我諗我暫時都有能力教到我個女"知識"o既

sheryl,
靖嵐係唔係聰明我都仲未知, 不過佢記性就真係好好, 佢連一年前d o野仲記得. 其實你唔係第一個話佢eq高, 但係我自己都唔知點睇到佢係:-P, 早在靖嵐六個月時, 我個家庭醫生已經係咁講.
我睇過靖嵐上堂一陣, 佢有扮大姐姐o架, 佢係咁塞玩具比d文靜d o既小朋友玩, 又係咁叫d小朋友幫手執o野.....臨走佢仲做埋呀嬸, 佢要搬返好哂d seat先肯走.....
靖嵐好細個就自己拿住本書睇, 冇乜特別教, 可能係細個我o地成日出街食飯時, 佢坐定定冇o野做, 我o地就比d書仔佢玩啦. 其實博博對書都好有興趣, 肯叫你讀比佢聽, 我o係圖書館見到好多小朋友係都拉呀媽走, 係呢, 你通常讀咩書比博博聽?.
我個女睇書主要唔係認字, 係睇圖多, 例如佢見到救護車, 佢會講:"救護車呀, 送病人去醫院", "救護員o係救護車做o野"等等....總之平時我教佢o既事物佢會o係本書d圖做個"總結"咁, 有時佢自己想像作故事囉...佢話:"哎呀~ 好痛添, 救護車快d送我去醫院先", 但如果本書係故事, 佢就會學我講返個故事比佢自己/我講
我個女細個就鍾意認字, 依家冇咁鍾意lu, 可能多o野玩o左啦. 佢認字我通常都係坐長途車時用畫板寫比佢睇, 我會教身邊最周圍o既事物, "媽媽", "爸爸".....等, 我唔係太讚成用flash card, 因為好死板, 但我都同靖嵐玩flash card囉.

我想要9999呀...

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係呀! 唔記得講一樣野, 我同老公和花囡昨天响屋企合作用碌柚和貼紙整左個燈籠, 作回校參加中秋會, 佢好開心和 exciting, 佢負責貼d 貼紙, 一路整一路唱生日歌, 講左比佢聽呢個係燈籠, 中秋節先有, 佢都係要唱, 可能佢的小腦子認為開心時候就要唱生日歌. 好等我明天 upload 佢整燈籠的相比大家睇.

Jsmami :

做亞媽真係好偉大呀!

中秋節我想都係响屋企平台同佢玩下算了, 因我地好怕人多又迫地方, 不過, 我同老公會响星期日帶花囡去維園睇花燈, 仲有要去 ikea 買呀 billy 返屋企呀!

Sheryl, 靖嵐 :

你講得對, 香港呢個地方真係冇好好去培訓/幫助呢d gifted 兒童, 但我知外國係好有系統的安排呢d 兒童去好好哉培, 我自己好友個仔响澳洲就係有咁對待.

Sheryl :

有心未為遲, 而家醫學倡明, 生仔已經不分年齡, 我常常用”林青霞”case 來鼓勵自己. 我當年懷住花囡去健康院檢查時, 有一個5x歲女人, 意外懷孕, 佢老爺陪佢來, 個伯伯睇落有成 8x歲, 仲大年紀個我亞婆. 而加開始努力開工吧!

嵐嵐21 :

亞花囡上星期响學校自已整雪糕, 又係講比我聽情況, 不過冇得拿回來食, 但我好開心, 我明白嵐嵐拿個蛋糕回來給你們時, 那份感動和喜悅.

Christ :

你去左邊? 快快現形!

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Sheryl,
你話生多個?我諗我一定唔會,一個都已經用哂我所有力量,再生多個的話我驚我支持唔住.
乜荔枝角有個好靚的公園嗎?死啦,我唔知tim,近邊到呀?

Jsmami,
Justin咁快就有朋友仔,如果這個小朋友乖的話重可以從中學習,真係好,你咁放心比Justin一個人坐校車,不過聽你講Justin咁定性就放心d,如果我個仔係定d我都想比佢坐校車,因為遲d搬咗要搭車上學,我驚我會好趕.

花花,
我個仔間學校都要中秋節帶燈籠返學,我老公都諗咗用麥記d杯做,呀仔成日問幾時整燈籠,佢好心急呀,另外重要帶d中秋節食物返去,我而家諗帶什麼好,你地有冇咩介紹?

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花花
我係道呀！
不過我e排都係請半日annual leave,返半日工·你哋果果都write too much message,我睇得黎都無time to write.要做o野
我e家又要走啦
bye

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jsmami:
Is excellent, Justin can ride the school bus already, very impressive ahhh

, wow, he has a buddy already, Justin is so handsome, I am sure very soon he will have a lot of girl *friends* gar la..hehe :-P

fafa:
I don't think fa lui needs to see the doctor, you might think too seriously la.

sherly:
My son didn't go to the school or playgroup yet. I am thinking about letting him to the nursery in Jan. next year.
I guess in US is more relaxing !? I feel like the education in H.K. is too much, seems like not only the kids have the pressure but all the parents need to run around in order to get their kids for a better school, I am sure is very tough for you guys cuz I remembered my mom was like that when I was little in H.K.

fafa,sherly,jsmami:
I agree on 2 kids, one kid is too lonely la especially after they grown up. I guess the gap has to be less than 5 years. For working mom, is really a hard decision to make cuz after works and being with just 1 kid is very tired already la.