Hello, I have a baby with 3.5 months ... I have post natal depression and as advised by the nurse, she suggest me to move to a house near my mom so we can take turn to take care of baby and also I can be more relax .. but the point is if I move near my moms house then I need to work (as I quit my job after I got pregnant) besides my relationship with my father is really bad ... so my husband suggest me to hire a maid to help me instead of me going to my moms house ( my father is old already and my mom need to take care of him ) ... I was so stressed whenever I think about this ... I am nearly chee sin la ... I am looking for a job already ... I have seen some mommy post their difficulties out and most of you can give good comment .. can anyone help ??? and give me some suggestion ?? ( I am sorry that I dont know chinese typing so I have to type in english) :cry:
Would like to say "THANK YOU" to all mommy who share your experience and opinions ... I am really very stressed and feeling upset all the time as I always think I am not good enough to be a mommy and the nurse said which is very wrong and unhealthy thoughts. I am still struggling on whether I should work or not ... I will meet the nurse again in JUL .. hope at that time I am able to work out the final plan ..
THANK YOU again to all of you ....
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