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發表於 07-8-2 09:54 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

hi Sept moms,

just wondering if you have started to discipline your baby. My son has started to "fake cry" a lot to get what he wants and I don't want to form a habit of it. Any advice for me ? :cry:

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發表於 07-8-2 11:19 |只看該作者

原文章由 yogamama 於 07-8-2 09:54 發表
hi Sept moms,

just wondering if you have started to discipline your baby. My son has started to "fake cry" a lot to get what he wants and I don't want to form a habit of it. Any advice for me ...

Hi yogamama
I quite believe in montessori and so I do not think that we need to "discipline" our babies now and hopefully no such need in the future.

BTW, If you can read simp chinese, go to the site and have a look. http://blog.sina.com.cn/0lovefreedom0

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發表於 07-8-2 11:52 |只看該作者

Thanks a lot, Virgobb. Very interesting read.

I've read a bit before on Montessori and always thought of it as an alternative learning method and way to boost a child's self development. Never really look at it as a "life style"

I like the part on "crying" very much. My son has been an easy baby all along. He now like the idea of crying as a way to tell us what he wants. According to the link you gave me, how would you put that in practice to "guide the baby" to express himself. I'm not so bothered to hear the cry but i want to find a positive way to deal with the situation and not take the easy option to give in or hold him up right away.

原文章由 virgobb 於 07-8-2 11:19 發表

Hi yogamama
I quite believe in montessori and so I do not think that we need to "discipline" our babies now and hopefully no such need in the future.

BTW, If you can read simp chinese, go ...

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發表於 07-8-2 12:22 |只看該作者

yogamama

my "method" is that if bb cry and ask for me, I try to hold her if i am available. if i am not available at that moment (e.g. doing another task), i will tell her that i will finish that task, pls wait for a moment. and i do keep my words, finish my task asap and go to her.

i think bb cry for "attention" is very natural, and i believe that if bb has enough attention, she will not cry for it.

i do not fear that it will spoil my bb. on the contrary, i observe that bb becomes more independent and feel comfort to explore the surroundings herself. and so my "effort" do payoff.

it's just my two cents. let's share as time goes

actually, i LOVE the montessorian method just because of her "lifelong" concept. on the otherhand, i do not plan to do montessorian homeschooling. maybe i will buy montessorian tool but as TOY only.

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發表於 07-8-2 12:25 |只看該作者

one more point, if my bb cries i will hold her and ask for her "你有咩事唔開心 ... 如果你可以講比媽媽聽就好啦 ..."

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發表於 07-8-2 12:41 |只看該作者

hey thanks for yr advice. I will give it a try. Me & my husband were staying up last night discussing on what to do.
You know being a parent, one has to move ahead and anticipate.

when's yr bb's bday ? Eren was born on Sep 3.

原文章由 virgobb 於 07-8-2 12:25 發表
one more point, if my bb cries i will hold her and ask for her "你有咩事唔開心 ... 如果你可以講比媽媽聽就好啦 ..."

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原文章由 yogamama 於 07-8-2 12:41 發表
hey thanks for yr advice. I will give it a try. Me & my husband were staying up last night discussing on what to do.
You know being a parent, one has to move ahead and anticipate.

when's yr ...

清林 is born on 8 Sept

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發表於 07-8-2 17:13 |只看該作者

That's a nice name. So happy my friend recommended me to join this forum. Loads of good info to share. :lol:

原文章由 virgobb 於 07-8-2 17:03 發表

清林 is born on 8 Sept

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發表於 07-8-2 17:49 |只看該作者

Thanks a lot.
Yes, there are a lot of super mommies and i also learnt a lot from the others here. Do come more.
Being parents is an art. but the happiness and satisfaction cannot be replaced.

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發表於 07-8-3 11:34 |只看該作者

原文章由 virgobb 於 07-8-2 17:49 發表
Thanks a lot.
Yes, there are a lot of super mommies and i also learnt a lot from the others here. Do come more.
Being parents is an art. but the happiness and satisfaction cannot be replaced.

hi virgobb & yogamama, nice meeting u 2.

on the subject of discipline, my son stays over at my mom's every wed nite, they spoil them over there ie always holding. so everyweek when he got home, he would fake cry & want to be held all the time.

but luckily the next day he will go back to normal, cos he knows he's at his own home, no one to hold him.

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發表於 07-8-3 12:10 |只看該作者

hi swongsk,

yr son looks v. cute

原文章由 swongsk 於 07-8-3 11:34 發表

hi virgobb & yogamama, nice meeting u 2.

on the subject of discipline, my son stays over at my mom's every wed nite, they spoil them over there ie always holding. so everyweek when he got ...

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發表於 07-8-3 14:27 |只看該作者

原文章由 yogamama 於 07-8-3 12:10 發表
hi swongsk,

yr son looks v. cute

yogamama - eren is a handsome boy too.:D

virgobb - which nursery/kindergarten r u planning to apply/have already applied?

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原文章由 swongsk 於 07-8-3 14:27 發表
virgobb - which nursery/kindergarten r u planning to apply/have already applied?

我已報 :-
寶山幼兒園 - 老實講, 報下架 je, just heard my friend whose girl is studying there says that they do not prefer 細 b and may ask me to send bb to other nursery for 1 yr first, if that's the case, 冇得諗 la

北角衛理堂 - 我有私人原因, 因為阿b d 表哥表姐全部係 lee 間, so far so good - e.g. 夠淺, 校舍夠大, not too commercial ... 阿b 細表同阿b 同年, 所以好可能做同學

Woodland Montessori - 諗梗, 但要嫲嫲帶, 可能有 d logistics 問題

可能會報 :

St. Paul Nursery - but it's from 8am - 5pm. i think it's a bit too long. 佢放學已經天黑呢 ... 我想阿b有d 時間同嫲嫲玩, 係屋企 hea 下, 咁比較似我想像既童年生活 ...

Casa De Bambini - another monte school, 諗梗

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發表於 07-8-3 15:41 |只看該作者

virgobb,

which woodland are you thinking of ? Seems like you are going for both mainstream and Int'l school.
Are you sending your daughter to any pre-school/playgroup now ?

原文章由 virgobb 於 07-8-3 15:12 發表

我已報 :-
寶山幼兒園 - 老實講, 報下架 je, just heard my friend whose girl is studying there says that they do not prefer 細 b and may ask me to send bb to other nursery for 1 yr first, if ...

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原文章由 virgobb 於 07-8-3 15:12 發表

我已報 :-
寶山幼兒園 - 老實講, 報下架 je, just heard my friend whose girl is studying there says that they do not prefer 細 b and may ask me to send bb to other nursery for 1 yr first, if ...

virgobb - so these schools start at 12 mths or 24 mth?

when do they accept application? i've already applied for Po Shan too for similar reasons.

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發表於 07-8-3 16:14 |只看該作者

原文章由 swongsk 於 07-8-3 15:45 發表

virgobb - so these schools start at 12 mths or 24 mth?

when do they accept application? i've already applied for Po Shan too for similar reasons.

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發表於 07-8-3 16:38 |只看該作者

原文章由 yogamama 於 07-8-3 15:41 發表
virgobb,

which woodland are you thinking of ? Seems like you are going for both mainstream and Int'l school.
Are you sending your daughter to any pre-school/playgroup now ?

caine road woodland.
I am considering monte school or not for kinder. But I plan to send her to local primary school.
Taking swimming classes (actually a "swimming playgroup") since 7mth old and that's what I will continue. May start language playgroup in Le Beaumont and I quite believe in "immersion" concept - I think the best way to learn language is to have opportunities to hear and speak to native speaker. No plan to join other playgroup as i do not wish to put baby to spend too much time at this stage to learn by following the teacher or doing some group activities.

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發表於 07-8-3 17:03 |只看該作者

原文章由 virgobb 於 07-8-3 16:38 發表

caine road woodland.
I am considering monte school or not for kinder. But I plan to send her to local primary school.
Taking swimming classes (actually a "swimming playgroup") since 7mth o ...

so can you tell me where u go for swimming playgroup, sounds fun??!!

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發表於 07-8-3 17:16 |只看該作者

原文章由 swongsk 於 07-8-3 17:03 發表
:)
so can you tell me where u go for swimming playgroup, sounds fun??!!

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不過可能問題係要去 West Island School 上堂, 係薄扶林, 我自己住西環就 5 min driving distance.
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