I will not let baby sleep in the same room with the maid (provided that I have the space at home of course).. now, my baby sleeps in our room.. Baby already spent the whole day with the maid... no matter how 辛苦, still worth to take care of the baby whenever we have the chance la.
even though I believe baby will know who is the mommy & daddy when they grow up, but to them - "mommy" and "daddy" would be just the title if we didn't spend enough time with them... they will still stick with the maid more as they spend more of the time together mar. that is 人之常情
等bb大, we will give up our work room to be my boy's room... I still won't let baby sleep in the same room with the maid.
After a third consideration, I think I will keep my bb with me in the same room at the current moment. May reconsider relocate him with the maid in summer time.