我初時(baby 3weeks)都立硬心腸唔抱
陪月姐話ニ+多日大嘅人仔一定開始扭抱
有次阿女喊成兩個鐘先收聲
點知....我前幾日睇本英文育兒書The New Baby Care Book,由醫生寫嘅,
佢話Never leave your baby to cry,
想同人有接觸先有安全感係本能,我哋唔可以ignore佢嘅情感需要,
如果唔係,有study證實會影响佢將來social development云云,
睇完都覺得有啲道理,自己有啲內疚添呀,跟住都唔敢由得佢喊,
本書話fulfill咗佢physical需要之後,mami真係不防抱多啲,用下'咩'帶貼身週度行,rock下佢,比奶咀,同佢講嘢,唱歌......之類