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發表於 04-4-12 06:02 |只看該作者

Re: 何否share小產經驗! Sorry to write this sad topic!!

LittleBMa, I am so sorry to hear your sister's news.
She must be very depressed and sad. Please took your and ask her husband to take his ultimate love and patient to comfort her and listen her words. It will not be a forgettable experience and allow her cry freely to mourn for her lost.

Hope all of you will recover from this sadness soon.

LittleBMa 寫道:
Dear sugarsugar ,

My sister had miscarriraged last week. She was 36 weeks. We felt so sad and she cannot calm down herself now. The doctor had put pillis into her virgina and the baby came out yesterday. He was a boy and the doctors didn't find out the reasons yet.

(曾經失去, 更感恩現有的快樂)Timothy 係天父照顧沒有哭聲的細哥哥

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Lynn

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發表於 04-4-12 11:58 |只看該作者

Re: 何否share小產經驗! Sorry to write this sad topic!!

LittleBMa,

I felt sorry to your sister too. Please send our best regards to her. And tell her that there are someone who has the same experiences and encourge her to look for the next one.

In fact, I had lost 2 babies. But I never lost my hope because my mother's story expires me to continue.

My mom married at 18. And she had lost three children before my eldest brother. The first one died around 38 weeks. The second one was dead when it came out. The third one was dead 3 days after birth. But my mon didn't know exactly what happened because in the old days, the medical is not so advanced. She finally had other 3 children. She even had me at the age of 38. She is a very strong person. So through her experiences, I know that sometimes, the precious will not come so easily. And just don't worry too much, if the children has " 緣份" with you, they will come someday.

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gigi123

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發表於 04-4-12 22:19 |只看該作者

Re: feel a lot better now

hi, Nemobebe,

i misscarried on 18/3. Had to take antibiotics for a week. Bleeding for 4 days.

i went to see a different doctor on 30/3. after taking a "look" of my uterus and a sonogram, she said my uterus was clear up and the corpus lutheum(?spelling) (the follicle that will produce ova)
was there, it was going to ovulate very soon, so she said i should "try" again to make a BB around the first days of April. i tried and i'm still waiting to miss the period.

so Nemobebe, don't be afraid, we may NOT have to wait after 2-3 months to conceive again, as my doctor told me. BUT she said we had to RELAX, as she'd see that we were deseperated for a BB.

(this doc said it doesn't matter whether to take serocrptin and clomid, i should conceive NATURALLY. so i stopped the medications)

so let's relax and wait... God bless u!!

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gigi123

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發表於 04-4-12 22:39 |只看該作者

Re: may not need to worry

hi again, Nemobebe,

sorry, after reading your passage once again,
i think that your case was NOT misscarriage. it was just SPOTTING. one of my colleagues had spotting on 8 weeks, she had 'several weeks' (!!) of bed rest (she didn't dare to move except eating and going to noilet), then she gave birth to a BB girl.

God bless u!!

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Nemobebe

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發表於 04-4-15 21:40 |只看該作者

Re: feel a lot better now

Hi, GiGi123,

Thanks for your reply. Now, i feel much better.
I miscarriage on mar 30, it suddenly in heavy breeding and i felt little bit pain in my tummy. So i went to sleep and next morning I felt my tummy is more relax and normal breeding. After few days, i don't have breeding and went to see the doctor and he said the baby gone and the womb is clear up. He said take 3 months to rest and can have baby again. So now I keep on to make my body more strong and ready to have baby again. Now i went to see chinese doctor and eat more chinese soup.
Anyway, it's nice to talk to you. Hopefully, I want talk to you on BB topic on next time and shared more experience.
Thanks for your sharing.

Nemobebe

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sunniema

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發表於 04-4-29 09:43 |只看該作者

Re: feel a lot better now

Hi,
Before, when I read this topic, I had my sympathy to those miscarriage mothers, but now, it happen on me.
I am a 高齡 and 不孕 mother. I have a ten years old daughter, I see the doctor over one years to have my daughter. After I gave birth of my daughter, I hope I can have another within a short period. But after I see doctor over one years, there aren't any good news. I gave up. However, at February this year, I pregnant. My whole family are full of joy. My private doctor is very delighted. He said it's really the grace of God. Since I am already 40 years old. I need to have the test of 絨毛球. I choose the cheapest one, I have the test in PW Hospital on March 31. Within this few months, the baby keep on growing. My doctor said he is five days bigger than the actual size and he is a tall baby. We are very happy. On Mar 31, we had the result at PW hospital, even at that time, we also have the goods news from the doctor. The result show the baby is healthy and is a baby boy.However, it only let me have the happiness for few minutes only. After the doctor gave me an ultrasound, he gave us a bad news, the baby don't have heart beat anymore. I was shocked, I can't believe myself. I don't have any symthoms of miscarriage, no bleeding....... Afterwards, I checked again with my private doctor. The ultrasound showed that the baby died on April 8 or 9. He said maybe the baby suffered from the test. I ask myself, if I have the test at the private doctor, will everything change? Everything is over, I don't know whether I can have another baby again. I really cannot calm down myself.

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Lynn

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發表於 04-4-29 13:31 |只看該作者

Re: feel a lot better now

Hi!, Sunniema,

Please take a rest and know that there are some one like you and will give you support.

Two years ago, I was taking the 羊水 test at week 16. And when I came back hospital at week 20, my baby lost his heart beat too. But I didn't know when it stoped. Anyway, I can't conclude if it is because of the test. And just like your case, the result of the 羊水 told me that everythig is normal and it is a baby boy. I was 35 years at that time, and just like your case, I had seen many doctors for 不孕症. Anyway, I am preganant again now. I am taking it as a gift. And hope this time I can have a healthy baby after two miscarriage.

What are you going to take out hte baby? Please take care of yourself now and rest more. Best wishes!

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sunniema

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發表於 04-5-3 10:28 |只看該作者

Re: feel a lot better now

Hi, Lynn,
I take out the baby by putting medicine in the vaginal. The baby came out same as the natural give birth. I really hope I can have the baby again within a short period since I alreay 40 years old now.
How many weeks is your baby now? May all the best wishes to your baby.

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發表於 04-5-4 00:23 |只看該作者

Re: feel a lot better now

sunniema, 知到妳的經歷, 替妳難過....

我記得有媽咪問自己私家醫生, 到他or 政府做抽羊水好? 她私家醫生告訴她, 其實威院醫生較熟手, 因為他們日日做, 反而私家醫生"生手".

不要怪責自己, bb 的離開, 不是妳的過失, 妳是一直努力去做好的... 只是, 有時現實不是如我們所想一樣.

lynn 完全是妳case的過來人, 她的分享經歷希望可以幫助妳.

我雖然經歷不是與妳一樣, 但都明白失去bb 的難過....願意鼓勵妳, 努力調養身體, 再接再厲, 加油.

(曾經失去, 更感恩現有的快樂)Timothy 係天父照顧沒有哭聲的細哥哥

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sunniema

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發表於 04-5-4 09:54 |只看該作者

Re: feel a lot better now

Tabima,

Thanks!
I really feel contradiction. My husband and my daughter want to have a baby. But I still worry about my old age... 40 years old already!!!!!

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peggyl

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發表於 04-5-4 12:34 |只看該作者

Re: any recommendation on specialist?

hello ladies,
i am now 32.5 yrs old. i know i am not alone because i had 2 miscarriages before.

have anyone heard of a specialist in infertility called, Dr. Clement Ho in central? my friend recommended him to me but i am not sure if i really need to see a specialist for diagnosis or advice, or should i simply take it easy & let myself conceive again naturally?

i also tried chinese herbalist (Dr. Chiu Siu Ping) in wanchai & took herbal tea for 1 month. then i quit because i actually don't believe in chinese medicine a lot....

I am now taking record of my basal body temperature to see my ovulation pattern & how well my uterus is performing.

here's my experience to share with you all:
1st time was in 2003 Feb when the baby was 10.5 wks old inside me and 2nd time was just Feb'04 when i was just 5.5 wks pregnant. no more heartbeat in both cases.

i have 3 periods after last D&C and my husband & I are thinking of getting pregnant again as I really wanna try early. I read some books about miscarriage & it looks like i am just being unlucky because doctor said my body should be fit for conceiving. it's just that somehow the baby won't stay living inside me.

thanks for listening! My warmest regards to all women here in this forum!

Peggy

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yca

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發表於 04-5-4 13:25 |只看該作者

Re: any recommendation on specialist?

Hi Peggyl, I'm sorry to know that you have miscarried twice. I miscarried in March and I was 6 weeks pregnant back then. It was a natural miscarriage so no complication for me.

Same as you, I did some research on miscarriage and noticed that even miscarried for twice is very common. Chances for you to get a healthy baby is the same as other women who has no or one miscarriage (80% of successful rate). I think unless you suspect something wrong with your body then you may consider consulting a specialist. Since most of the miscarriage is due to random hormonal defect, if it is your cause of miscarriage, spending the money and time with the specialist may not help much. I think you can ask your doctor and see if it is necessary for you to go for any specialist.

If you have been taking your basal body temperature, you should be able to tell whether your cycle is a normal one. Things like hormone problems should be able to reflect on your temperature chart. If everything is normal, you shouldn't concern so much.

I usually recommend people to try for Chinese medicine because I found it quite helpful myself but if you are not a big fan of alternative medication, you can do whatever is good for your health. Eat healthy and stay positive will surely help your body recover and get ready for next pregnancy.

You can also start taking folic acid while you are trying which will be good for you. I hope with better understanding of your own cycle and body health condition, you can get pregnant again soon. Take care and good luck.

Check your PM later.

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peggyl

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發表於 04-5-5 11:04 |只看該作者

Re: any recommendation on specialist?

Thanks yca for sharing!
I went to see a gynaecologist yesterday & she told me not to worry too much & should start trying again asap because me & my "egg" are aging everyday! she said, 'what are you waiting for?' Be brave & positive. So my husband & I will just try our luck & by the time we are pregnant again, i will go seek for professional care.
Wish me luck!

Peggy

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發表於 04-5-5 23:26 |只看該作者

Re: any recommendation on specialist?

peggyl,

Wish you have a healthy baby very soon

(曾經失去, 更感恩現有的快樂)Timothy 係天父照顧沒有哭聲的細哥哥

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Lynn

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發表於 04-5-6 11:29 |只看該作者

Re: any recommendation on specialist?

Sunniema,

I have the exact experience with you. I was inserted a drug and just like gave birth to have it came out. And I saw the baby and it was so small. But anyway, let it be and look forwards to the bright future. Take it easy and relax! You will have good news soon. My sister's friend told me that she had her first child at 30 and she had countless miscarriage before she had another healthy boy at 42. But she said that when you are pregnant again, you must take total bed rest for the first four months.

Peggyl,
Just like yca mentioned, 2 miscarriage is not a abnormal cases, don't feel frustrated, take care of your body!

Tabima,
Your daughtor is so cute and lovely!

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dorismyw

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發表於 04-5-7 19:29 |只看該作者

Re: any recommendation on specialist?

Hi,

Glad to find a place where I can share my sad experience with you all. I just had the abortion in Magaret Hospital 2 days ago. I am 35 years old and this was my first time of pregnancy. Before I had this experience, I think the most difficult job for a pregnant woman is to stand for the painful for giving birth to a baby. But now, I found that solving the worries and depression that a mother would have during the prenancy is also not an easy job.

I planned to have baby of year of monkey but now the hope was gone. I hope I can recover from the sadness and worries and have baby again very soon.

May all the best wishes to all of you and the babies.

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