i agreed with you .. no need to ask too many "點解" ... it's just like forcing them to make a reason / an excuse....
but my husband said I should ask them "點解".. to understand their intention / purpose wor................. but i think very often... they only have one intention / purpose... lazy... so, asking them "點解" is just like pushing them to the wall somehow.
yes, i don't like to push her... if she work with hard feeling to us, she feel unhappy and everything she unwilling to do... also feel that Mam alway pointed her about the wrong things ..... I don't like that.
原文章由 lu-ka 於 08-2-5 14:52 發表
yes, i don't like to push her... if she work with hard feeling to us, she feel unhappy and everything she unwilling to do... also feel that Mam alway pointed her about the wrong things ..... I don't l ...
100% agree with you. I did the same to my maid. I think this is the rite attitude towards your maid, make her feel like she is part of your family....then every problem will be gone....good luck and Kung Hey Fat Choy!