I would love to have a second one but I am worried that I can not handle two by myself (my husband can never do much help). Besides, I will need two helpers as it is no way that she can manage two kids at the same time especially one will be a new born. Then my house will have so many people. My first one is a daughter and what if the second one is a girl again. My family will be full of women/girls (2 maids, 2 daughter and myself) I am also worried that I would not spent as much time to my daughter as if I have only one daughter. I have so much to worry, eh?