i will give she a chance.
take care a new born BB need good EQ, it is not everyone can. another hand, you can give she a warning letter, let she known, you dont allow same case again.
I think you better change another maid as it is still early in her employment. Remember she is still in debt and she needs this job.
Take your time to find another one.
I regret to fire my maid too late. After i scold her for stealing my personal belonging. She play trick on us.
finding a maid is not easy and it take time.
Actually I have similiar experience with all the moms shared in this topic. I employed an Indo. maid before my BB born, she pretended to be good and clean up the house tidily.
After I delivered my baby and during the 1st month after baby born, I found her 對家務也愈來愈求奇. By that time, I discussed with my husband and my mom and they both told me to give her change because they both think we all need a period of time to adopt the newborn and the change of daily life. Then I did not fired her.
My baby is 9 months old now and when she is alone with the baby only, my mother-in-law told she is not willing to touch the baby but while we come back home after work, she pretended to be very nice and patient to the baby. What I finally decided is to change another one because my husband and mom recognized her pretending recently.
So, my opinion is you have to change immediately before you wife goes back to work. Leaving a baby home with such kind of people will disturb you emotion much. As far as you don't trust her that she will be good with the baby in future, why not to change. The 1st two year to the development of a baby is very very important, I think you could feel/sense the critical of this point.
Good luck and I am now recommended by my colleague a good maid and I recognized my son behaves more happy recently and more smiles was found on his face. How valuable it was ? Don't let yourself to be in trouble for 2 years (actally I don't believe you can employ her for completly 2 years), the trouble will come again and again and why not you avoid and resolve it now.
eor 寫道:
...... Don't let yourself to be in trouble for 2 years (actally I don't believe you can employ her for completly 2 years), the trouble will come again and again and why not you avoid and resolve it now.
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Yes, it's very true. The trouble comes again and again ..... never stop. The problem persisted.
eor, you're so lucky that you can get a good maid finally.
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