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唔該想問下關於炒印印

好激氣.
我同老公對個印印好好,由bb出世前做到依家,bb都14個月大,原本都覺得佢做得幾好,仲諗執到寶添! 最近我裝左攝錄機,點之發現佢帶人上我家,家冇人佢就係咁講電話,冇做家務,唔理bb,我地已比次機會佢,警告過佢一次.但昨晚,佢餵bb食粥時,我地出街食飯,返來問佢bb有冇食粥,佢話bb食左一半,但之後睇番帶,我地有驚人發玩

個工人一見我地走左,就即拎個mobile出來打電話,當時仍bb坐係highchair睇tv,但佢冇再餵佢食粥,而且.....佢一路講電話一路用bb支spoon食bb碗粥....一啖都冇比bb食過 :-x 仲要"lam"乾淨支spoon比bb玩 & 擺入口,我同老公真係睇到眼火爆!!平時吞pop唔做家務唔理bb都忍佢,但今次竟然見到佢咁對我個bb,我真係好傷心,因我真係當佢係家人咁看待.佢真係雙面人,我地係到一個樣,唔係到又另一個樣!!
所以我地會帶佢上agent到"省"佢,如果佢肯悔改及簽warning letter,就比多次機會佢.但呢次真係我地最後的底線. 我知道你地睇左,一定叫我千奇唔好,但我真係唔忍心咁殘忍,因大家的關係都唔係咁差.而且仲有好多工作及家庭因素未解決到.但如果佢都仲係唔認及悔改,我就唯有炒佢.
但我依家好迷惘,唔知warning letter要打d乜?雖然"論盡家傭"有教,但我都唔係好明.同埋我依家要步儲d咩&預備d咩(e.g. warning letter? 自願遲職信? 機票? 點計埋d假期& 出餘下的糧? -- 呢d野agent會唔會敎我呢?因我打去問agent,佢都好側側膊,唔係好helpful!). 我依家好亂好煩,第一次請工人咩經驗都冇,唔知各位媽咪有冇人可以敎下我 & 幫下我呢?

一個好冇用的媽咪上 :-(

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發表於 04-5-18 00:19 |只看該作者

Re: 唔該想問下關於炒印印

Re:唔忍心咁殘忍對個印印.....
唉~~~~~~!!!
咁你又咁忍心及殘忍...可以由得佢咁對待你的"bb"嗎???

你真係要認真考慮清楚.......:-(
另....唔好話自己冇用...錯不在你...係個印印至真!!!

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發表於 04-5-18 09:56 |只看該作者

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[size=large]我已決定要炒個工人!!

一見到佢對住我笑好似好鍚bb咁,我真係好hurt & 好想嘔. why佢可以咁架 :-x 原本琴日我都好"油2"好唔好warn佢,俾次機會佢唔炒佢,但琴晚我專登再裝佢,等佢餵粥時,全家(老公,阿媽)出去食飯,我叫佢就算bb唔肯食,你都要try,但.....由我地出門開始,bb就一路係網床自己睇tv,佢就係咁講電話成個鐘,完全冇抱bb上highchair餵粥,跟住諗住我地快返,就收埋張highchair,當已食完執埋野添

唉....d粥又係佢隻衰野食晒 :-( 不過我都預左佢會咁做,所以都冇咩感覺,我對佢已死心,冇得救啦.
我阿媽開頭仲話我地,叫我地唔好咁沖動,但琴晚食飯時我比番餅帶佢睇,佢好希望個工人會比"一匙粥"bb食都好,但冇law,所以佢都冇再講乜,我知佢都好hurt & disappointed.後尾阿媽先講番上次我話個工人帶人返家,佢死都唔認,我阿媽問佢,佢都好慘咁話冇,仲話:可能係太太同先生唔鍾意我,所以屈我,佢地唔鍾意我可以炒我架.~~~~你話我地聽完幾嬲丫. 比次機會佢,佢仲咁講野. e+邊個屈邊個呀??佢真係有思覺失調

今朝我老公起身,見佢係廳餵奶又訓

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發表於 04-5-18 10:36 |只看該作者

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[size=medium]我地個個都會支持你既決定!!!
[size=large]唔好down...唔好down...
舊既唔去...新既唔黎...
希望在明天丫ma...

如炒

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發表於 04-5-18 10:56 |只看該作者

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hellohello,
多謝你支持

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發表於 04-5-18 11:22 |只看該作者

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happy3 寫道:
但我依家好迷惘,唔知warning letter要打d乜?雖然"論盡家傭"有教,但我都唔係好明.同埋我依家要步儲d咩&預備d咩(e.g. warning letter? 自願遲職信? 機票? 點計埋d假期& 出餘下的糧? -- 呢d野agent會唔會敎我呢?因我打去問agent,佢都好側側膊,唔係好helpful!). 我依家好亂好煩,第一次請工人咩經驗都冇,唔知各位媽咪有冇人可以敎下我 & 幫下我呢?
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Well, let me share some experience with you... [here are the steps to fire your domestic helper]

1. Go to agency to find another domestic helper
2. Confirm the new domestic helper when will start the contract
3. Bring your present domestic helper to the AGNECY and give a WARNING LETTER to her. Of course, you should ask her to sign on it and your agent, who to be a witness, also. Remember write down " "I, [Name of agent] translated the content of this warning letter from English into Indonesian to [your domestic helper's name] and she understood all meanings""
4. Keep all evidenance; video tape; warning letter; etc.
5. After that day [warning letter], take one more video for evidence. eg. she did not feed baby and ate up your bb's food, etc.
6. File all documents about; payroll, leave record, warning letter, etc. AND prepare some documents:
(a) Termination Letter without notice
(b) Acknowledgment of recieved all compensation
7. Asking a reasonable price of ONE-WAY Air ticket back to her country. In your case, I suggest you use MONEY in lieu of air ticket.
8. Calculate the last payment:
a/ Last month salary
b/ Pro-rata annual leave wages
c/ One-way air ticket
d/ One day "Food & Travel allowance" = HK$100
9. On the Important Day.....
a/ Ask your relative to take care the baby outside
b/ Ask your agent/friend/relative to be a witness
c/ Ask your husband stand by downstairs
d/ Record the whole process with your Digital Cam
e/ Fire HER and ask her to counter sign all documents
f/ Check her luggage before she leave your home
g/ Fax a termination letter to HK Immigration depart
h/ Mail a termination letter to your district labour department
i/ Keep all documents in your safe box at least one year.
j/ change door lock
k/ Annouce to your neighbour/security guard/school teacher/etc your domestic helper was fired by you by misconduct.

Finally, Good Luck.

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發表於 04-5-18 11:26 |只看該作者

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happy3
一於化不快為力量﹐努力請人﹐lee段時間你可能會辛苦d﹐但就算點辛苦都好﹐你要保護CC.....ok
唔好心軟﹐明天會更好嗎﹗﹗我地支持你....

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happy3,

既然你比咗咁多機會佢都唔懂得珍惜, 都係時候搵個一個新工人啦,你炒咗佢係佢嘅損失, 唔係你!! 唔好唔開心啦.....

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May I know who did she bring to your home? Man or Woman? Anyway, pls check all her laungage before she leave. I don't think she can trust anymore, you can't because of a maid to affect your bb's normal life.

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羊羊ma,
佢帶個女人返來,我諗都係工人掛!我一定會check下佢d行李架啦.多謝提點!

kkparent,
many many thanks!

puppy & bblong,
多謝!

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Happy :
我覺得你應該買機票唔好俾現錢，因為好多agent會送D工人去中山或深圳搵到僱主就返黎，俾機票安全得多。

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bbboop,
thanks

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發表於 04-5-19 14:14 |只看該作者

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死性係唔會改,,改左佢就會死.....
唔好意思,,我咁激因為我都遇過雙面人,,,
同埋我好憎d工人扮野, 尤其扮鍾意小朋友,,,,,
其實就好憎小朋友,,又嚴佢煩,又唔理佢地死活,,
同佢地着衫就大大力,最賤就係冬天一次同兩個冲涼,,
賴得佢要死,,,,攪到我兩個女成日病,,,,正賤人,,一d愛心都冇

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發表於 04-5-19 14:51 |只看該作者

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happy 3,
TAKE A GOOD CARE !!!!!YOURSELF & CC....
DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY , HAPPY 3!!!!!!!

CHING LING & DD

:party: :party: :party: :party: :party: HIHI!!! EVERYBODY

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發表於 04-5-19 15:29 |只看該作者

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HI

I employed more than 5 maids within 2 years. When i have baby almost 7 months, i employed one of the maid who was introduced by my friend, she was no moble phone, after she worked to my house, she bought a mobile phone, and told her never talks the phone when she was on duty, ie. when she slept, i will let her. But after few months, she talked the phone seriously even she was cooking. i am housewife, i always saw that i ask her go and then i employed the philip, she never sleep late , i remember 2 times, when my husband back home around 11:30pm , i have to let my baby sleep, i told her if Sir was back , pls open the door for him, she said OK, but when my husband back, she shout very loudly, " i need to open the door?" i am very angry , you know when the baby slept , i can't go, otherwise, she will not sleep and play again. so i think she was not helpful, i fried her. Not talk too much, now i employed the new maid (Fresh) indoneian, she is OK la, she worked here almost 1 year. so far so good

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