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洋房

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發表於 04-7-26 16:30 |只看該作者

請俾意見

工人岩黎果陣時, 曾經問我星期日有冇規定要幾時返黎, 因我第一次請工人, 所以答佢 "冇", 工人都同我講會早返架啦.
初時佢都算係咁, 8~9pm左右返黎, 我亦覺得 OK, 但時間長左, 佢返黎既時間就愈來愈夜 (10~11:00pm), 仲試過同我請假返菲律賓, 結果就搞到差唔多1:00am 先返到黎! (機係 18:00 由菲律賓起飛, 我問佢點解, 佢就多多解釋)
終於係兩個月前, 佢成11:00pm 先返到屋企之後, 我話比佢聽, 希望佢 10:00pm前返黎, 佢面黑黑咁答左我 "Yes"
跟住既星期日佢 9:5x pm 返黎, 再下一個星期日--- 10:0xpm 返 (冇話佢), 再下一個星期日--- 10:1xpm 先返! 我同佢講多一次我既要求, 佢就無表情咁答左 "Yes"
跟住-- 9:5xpm 返, 跟住-- 10:0xpm返 (忍住條氣, 冇話佢), 琴晚--- 10:1xpm 返!
佢一返, 我話我既要求係 10 點前! 佢既表現當然係黑面同埋 "知道勒, 你唔駛再講" 望都唔望我咁既款 :-x :-x
我覺得好 "慶", 唔關遲幾分鐘既事, 而係我覺得工人根本唔當我既要求一回事, 仲要時不時試下我既底線!!!
其實我已發覺工人唔少野冇照指示做, 好好地同佢講第二次都係咁(但每一次佢都講"Yes", 同佢講第二次佢仲要 Show 出 "知勒, 知勒" 個不耐煩樣出來 :-x ), 一定要"鬥"黑面講第三次, 佢先 "好似" 有照指示做 (其實有d野我睇唔到, 因為要返工)
講真, d 野未必係咩大事, 但就係因為呢 d "小事" 佢都唔聽指示, 比唔到信心我, 我真係唔知可以交待佢做咩 "大 d 既事" (譬如送囡囡上暑期班等等)
So far 我就未查覺佢有偷野、借錢呢d劣行, 偷懶、講下大話(通常都係因偷懶而講既大話)、黑面、懶叻... 呢d又好似係工人共通既問題, 其實最麻煩既係, 我嘗試同個女講, 遲d會換個人陪佢好唔好, 囡囡就點都唔肯 (平時得個工人同佢一起, 阿囡對住佢算好感情, 但我就唔覺佢對囡囡好好, 因為以前我見過囡囡猛同佢傾偈, 佢都唔答佢, 有時夜晚我係屋企, 工人係自己間房, 囡囡想搵佢玩, 佢都拒絕, 要我開聲佢先肯離開間房陪佢!)
總之講下講下, 就覺得佢地好討厭!!! 我從來唔會要求工人調假, 都係比佢放星期日, 諗住佢可以同班朋友聚下, 解下鄉愁, 就算去旅行, 都冇要求佢放年假, 但係我一返黎, 竟然可以比我踩到一腳塵, 同埋懶到連樹都唔淋下水, 枯左!!! 偷懶都唔係 mug 都唔做係唔係呀 :-x
佢做錯野, 都唔敢出 Warning Letter 比佢, 因為擔心個囡, 唔出, 工作態度真係愈來愈差, 抄佢果陣時仲分分鐘可能被告無理解僱, 要求比埋未完合約部分既人工!
真係唔知咩世界! 你地會點做啊...


男爵府

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發表於 04-7-26 17:00 |只看該作者

Re: 請俾意見

I also can not tolerate this kind of maid and I think I will fire her. Start to hire another maid privately and when the new maid arrive, you can dismiss her. The reason for dismissal is she keeps on disregarding your orders/regulations. This is only what I think, maybe you should talk to your agent. My own maid is also no good at all (but she's new and green) and I keep thinking if I should change her as well.


大宅

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發表於 04-7-26 17:07 |只看該作者

Re: 請俾意見

頭兩年請工人,可以話炒就炒,只要補返一個月人工比佢加埋假期錢同機票就得.所以新人一到就即炒.妳個工人咁似我以前個賓.佢係咪叫Delia?


洋房

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發表於 04-7-26 17:40 |只看該作者

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淑筠媽咪:
唔係叫 Delia 啊, 我都唔知d工人係唔係都差唔多! (個 Delia 妳有冇完約呢?!)
自問自己唔係刻薄僱主, 比好大空間工人去安排佢自己既工作, 有突發狀況多數係自己搞定 (譬如個女病、嘔...), 但越係咁, 個工人就越當你係 lu lu, 一定要搞到發脾氣, 黑面對番佢地先得! 請工人真係好煩啊...


洋房

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發表於 04-7-27 00:41 |只看該作者

Re: 請俾意見

果班賓妹正式賤骨頭, 硬係受硬吾受軟, 好好對佢就當你死既, 一定要人開口話同黑面先醒定. 佢地d難頂野係非請過賓妹的家庭能形容的.


侯爵府

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發表於 04-7-27 10:39 |只看該作者

Re: 請俾意見

AnLi

就係你對佢好得濟, 我請過3個印印, 兩個bun bun.

發覺對佢地太好, 就是對自己差.

依家呢個對佢不過不失, 維持做'太太'威嚴, 就黎一年, 都ok.

總之一句, 我不怕有仔女係佢手上, 總之有錯就話, 話不聽再講, 再講都不聽就丙, 丙都不得就搵agency.

佢生日, 過年過節買份平平地的禮物比佢, 等佢有d溫暖就ok啦.


大宅

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發表於 04-7-27 11:40 |只看該作者

Re: 請俾意見

AnLi,

一於秘密搵人啦,等新工人到就即炒件衰嘢,你唔使同你個女講會換工人的,到要炒工人嗰日,你只要將你個女放喺親戚朋友度,唔好畀你個女見到你炒個工人就得,到時你去接個新工人時,你可帶埋你個女去,咁你個女就會易啲接受個新工人,記住唔好搵啲又老又醜嘅工人呀,小朋友大多都鍾意啲順眼嘢的.


大宅

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發表於 04-7-27 12:45 |只看該作者

Re: 請俾意見

AnLi
我個工人Delia,寡婦黎(同情佢所以請佢)做左九個月就比我炒左.自從六個月還完債,佢就開始比面色我睇.做錯野我話返比佢知,佢就用個背脊對佢我,同佢講野,佢直頭唔彩我添.十問九唔應.問佢想唔想係度做,佢都唔答妳,死未.初初請工人,佢偷我野,又唔敢話佢.佢黑口黑面對住我,我重要笑笑口對住佢,怕佢對我個女唔好.知佢去借錢,又唔敢同佢講.放假佢返黎,我個女入去房搵佢,佢重推佢埋牆,撞親添.唔只一次係幾次.我忍忍忍,最後忍無可忍咪炒左佢.
都唔知d賓諗乜,老板比錢請佢重要比面色人睇.所以我同自己講一定唔會再請寡婦.一D愛心都冇.


洋房

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發表於 04-7-27 14:28 |只看該作者

Re: 請俾意見

唉, 各位媽咪
自從星期日同個女講過遲d換個人陪佢呢件事之後, 囡囡好似真係好驚我換工人, 琴晚同個女刷牙時, 佢突然話 "xxxx (工人名, 我既女當佢係 "家姐"!) 好鍚我嫁, 妳唔好換人陪我!"
我: "但係佢有時做野做得唔好, 唔乖, 曳曳啊, 媽咪換個鍚妳既姐姐陪妳啦" 女:"唔好(好大聲)! 我會"男女男" 佢(新工人) 架!" (眼濕濕)
囡囡細個時, 我請本地褓姆湊, 一年前換菲傭湊佢, 佢都有段適應期, 好冇安全感咁, 諗起都覺得可憐!


男爵府

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發表於 04-7-27 14:41 |只看該作者

Re: 請俾意見

if your maid does not change after warning (verbal and written), better get a new one...

you girl will soon forget about her. don't worry too much. as long as your new maid is goodhearted and knows how to play with your girl, your kid should have no problem with the new one. it just takes a bit of time.


大宅

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發表於 04-7-27 21:41 |只看該作者

Re: 請俾意見

You must find a new one, even your daughter doesn't want to have. I really hate the maid who doesn't like to be controlled. It must waste my time to teach her.

For you as her employer, you must set up some clear rules to her, eg. wake up at 7am etc. If no rules, she will try to check your bottom-line. So you can't be so nice to them.

There are so many maids in HK, I don't believe that I can't find a better one to replace her job.

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