Take it easy. He's just too concerned about your daughter. Perhaps he's a bit nervous. After all, it's better than he doesn't care....Try to discuss it with him and make him understand your feelings.
Is there any problem with you two's relationship? Why didn't he trust you? Do you have your own mobile phone? If he can reach you any time, he would be more relaxed and easy-going perhaps.....
My relationship with my hubby is worse since my girl was borned. We argued mostly because of her mother, she wants to take care of the baby, but I don't to as she is too old (72 years old). She tried one day but really can't handle it. We argued because I sent my girl to my mom's place which made her mom losing face.
正如你所說，他可能覺得"欠"咗嗰女所以更加緊張，也可能是因他不知如何表達他的關心和不安呢！只要一找不你們時，為使減低他的不安只好求助他的親戚。而人的不安是因對事情不了解才會產生。或者你試下在出門前send SMS給他，平時也把你女兒的情況也send SMS or email給他，就好像寫日記，等到他叫你停為止。
我都好似你那樣，要成個月才見到老公一次。而我就有寫日記的習慣，是生完ｂｂ後才養成，所以可以幾天便會把家裡的近況 email 給他。其實send email or SMS都不是問題，以前我們都是寫信啦！而且send 文字有個好處，就是想清楚才send。
Hi xellos
原來妳老公仔又係成個月先返來一次，所以妳比較了解我哋情况。妳老公每次番來幾多日？我老公每次番來都係兩、三日就走la。其實妳都講得好"0岩"，佢其實都係一個好男人，0禁多年佢都好勞力去為頭家，我啲朋友問我，驚唔驚佢去有第二個女人，我相信佢唔會敢做，因為佢好投入個家，事無大小都要向佢報告。末有嗰女啲時候，我地從來都末吵過交，十分好。但到嗰女出世之後，就好似好多嘢唔夾，淒女和教女都啲方式都唔同，所以现在成日吵，都係為個女。 其實我都有sent email比佢0架，但寫日記就無啦。個女每日都寫咭比佢0架，每晚佢都同個女响computer到视像電話倾成兩句鍾，唉！我都理解唔到佢為や嘢咁唔放心。
Yes. Try to 體諒 that he's just a 緊張大師，24孝老豆.
I think he's much better than those fathers who just don't care and never ask about their kids, right?
Of course I understand that taking care of the kid involves a lot of things to deal with and forgetting to bring your mobile phone is absoutly not a sin. He should not blame you after all.
Try to talk with him and let him understand what would you feel if he lost his temper and blamed you, etc.
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