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ehoiyee

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發表於 04-8-29 02:12 |只看該作者

好唔開心...心情好煩!!

呢排發覺同老公經常為小小o既野鬧架...
但係又唔知點解會咁喎...
以前都唔會咁o既...但係我唔知點解...
我個心竟然有小小唔想見到佢咁呀..
唔知係唔係因為佢而家o的脾氣
以前佢見到o的仔女佢係唔會發脾氣...會多o的同佢地玩
but轉左工之後周不時發脾氣....一時對o的仔女好好轉頭又會無情情發脾氣鬧對仔女喎....有時見佢無情情發脾氣鬧對仔女我真係好唔鍾意..同佢講做野唔開心都唔好咁o的仔女出氣轉頭就對住我鬧...我越來越唔了解佢呀...唉..到底我可以點呀!!

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發表於 04-8-29 02:34 |只看該作者

Re: 好唔開心...心情好煩!!

夫婦相處少不免會遇到呢D情況，你試下平心靜氣傾下，睇睇佢係咪因為工作上遇到D咩問題，有時D男人遇到問題唔開心，又唔識搵人傾訴，可能又驚同你講會令到你擔心，所以屈埋屈埋。

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發表於 04-8-29 09:36 |只看該作者

Re: 好唔開心...心情好煩!!

My hubby's previous job made him very angry and lots of pressure from the boss because in his group, only he could do a good job, so his boss called him to meeting for opinion even though it wasn't his job duty. Day by day the "not his duty" became "his duty".

Good thing is he would share with me what was going on in his job, this is a good way for him to release his anger out and lower his pressure by saying out. For me, I will comfort his feeling and tell him no matter what happen to him, he can always tell me and I will listen to him at any time. Sometimes I will feel bore because what he said is almost the same (about his bad boss) but I would tell myself just treat it like listening to radio or listening a story.

I think your husband's problem is mainly about his new job and that is why he became so mad easily. Believing he has no way to reduce his anger and pressure and he can't control his anger in front of his family. I think if you blame him for being angry will make him feels that you won't stand at his side to think for him and sooner or later both of you will have a large distance between you two. Not saying he has the right to be angry with you or to the kids or he is right to do so. Instead it's better to smile at him and say "Lately I found that you somehow easily angry with the kids and me. I'm concern about you and the kids's feeling. If I didn't guess wrong you must be getting pressure or upset from your job. If you want to share I'm willing to listen. Let him feel that someone cares about him and remind him to care about the kid's feeling too.

Hope this help. My hubby did tell me he appreciated me to listen to him, so he didn't need to hold everything inside his head. After complaining about his boss he will happy again and talk something else with me. :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

I guess the hard work for you is how to get him to talk with you because not every man (like my hubby) will like to talk about their problem.

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發表於 04-8-29 11:45 |只看該作者

Re: 好唔開心...心情好煩!!

男人有時係出面做野都好大壓力

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發表於 04-8-29 17:54 |只看該作者

Re: 好唔開心...心情好煩!!

你老公會吾會轉左工之後有壓力呀, 你同佢傾下喇, 可能佢都好煩呢, 你要體諒下佢.

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