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[全職媽媽] 無工人,如何照顧一個trouble two?


大宅

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發表於 09-3-7 01:14 |顯示全部帖子
囝囝一歲半前,無工人都唔算大問題,俾d玩具氹下佢,佢都可以磨一陣時間,勉強應付到家務。

而家,囝囝開始trouble two,佢真係好唔合作,我一邊煮飯,佢一邊哭著要我,吃飯時又樣樣say no。而家既要做家務,又要教囝,做得好吃力,好大壓力。一日疲於煮食,經已無氣力教囝。

各位媽咪,你地有咩對策,如何可以分配得好?定係,你們通常有其他人幫手?

謝謝﹗

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請教一下,順產同開刀陪月係咪唔同價錢...
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唔好信曬陪月,一定要自己識


大宅

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發表於 09-3-7 17:17 |顯示全部帖子
每個人的能力不同,而每個小朋友在成長中亦有不同的雖要,唔好覺得係壓力,如果無人幫手,可以唔煮食出街食囉,只煮少量粥比呀囝食,比時間自己去適應,你一定做得到。
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伯爵府

國民生產總值:17021

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發表於 09-3-7 23:00 |顯示全部帖子
我個女都係2yr-old, 但我都無工人

不過我有請鐘點, 每周一次, 主要係做粗重家務, 如洗廚房廁所抹窗等, 你都可以試下, 減輕d家務

我都要煮飯, 但煮時會先"安頓"好佢, 例如俾佢睇佢鍾意的卡通片(雖然我唔係好贊成睇電視, 但呢d時候都要俾佢睇, 我個女一見thomas或者winnie the pooh卡通便會目不轉睛), 又或者俾佢玩鍾意的玩具(例如我個女會好專心玩puzzle), 再唔係我會俾佢食野(我個女好鍾意食提子干, 我會同佢講媽媽要做野, 我可以俾提子干你食, 但你唔好naughty)

你kitchen有無裝門欄?如果我個女仲係扭計, 我唯有唔理佢, 佢會o係門欄度喊, 我但我會由佢, 因為起碼我見倒佢, 知佢安全)

仲有, 盡量減少做野, 例如買餸咁, 可以一次買定幾日, 便可以多d時間處理小朋友的事情


別墅

國民生產總值:822


發表於 09-3-7 23:01 |顯示全部帖子
請鐘點, 幫輕家務, 情願多時間陪仔仔/教仔仔.


水晶宮

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發表於 09-3-8 01:02 |顯示全部帖子
my maid left at jan, when my son was 2 yrs old.
I am taking care my son without any elderly help.

agree with milk 2004, dun cook is very good suggestion.

at first, I tried to keep the family life as before, but I found that it take almost 2 hrs to (purchase+pepare+cook+wash dishes+cleaning the mass by feeding baby) for a meal, which means 2 hrs less for play with baby, it dosen't worth at all.

since my hubby left office late, he could has his dinner at office and now I only boil soup once in 2 days,cook only simple lunch for my baby,noodles,udon...
for dinner, we always share a rice box or set dinner law...virous choice and no clean up work, and actually even cheaper than cook myself.


水晶宮

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發表於 09-3-8 01:07 |顯示全部帖子
the kitchen gate can't stop my son anymore, he could open it or push it down.
so I 've took it away and put a chair in the kitchen, if my son dun watch TV and tents to stay with me. then he could sit there and watch. and I would talk to him and explain him what I am doing now:
"mama is boiling the soup now and you could have fish soup udon later.."
"mama is washing dishes now and can play with you after 5 mintues..."


大宅

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發表於 09-3-8 01:47 |顯示全部帖子
係呀,我都開始考慮請鐘點。始終教小朋友最緊要﹗

原帖由 l_wingwing 於 09-3-7 23:00 發表
我個女都係2yr-old, 但我都無工人

不過我有請鐘點, 每周一次, 主要係做粗重家務, 如洗廚房廁所抹窗等, 你都可以試下, 減輕d家務

我都要煮飯, 但煮時會先"安頓"好佢, 例如俾佢睇佢鍾意的卡通片(雖然我唔係好贊成睇 ...


大宅

國民生產總值:1507


發表於 09-3-8 01:55 |顯示全部帖子
Same as you, my hubby always gets off his job lately. Even though the dinner time there is only my son and I taking it. To me, preparing and having dinner is the day's biggest problem. Since it takes the longest time while my son has poorest temper during evening (prehaps due to his sleepy time). I can't concentrate to cook when my son is crying for me. He will climb on the kitchen gate and let me feel uncomfortable. I also lose effort to teach him during and after dinner.

Now I am planning to hire a parttime helper. Hope it help the housework so that I could resume the time to accompany with my son.


原帖由 canies 於 09-3-8 01:02 發表
my maid left at jan, when my son was 2 yrs old.
I am taking care my son without any elderly help.

agree with milk 2004, dun cook is very good suggestion.

at first, I tried to keep the family life a ...

[ 本帖最後由 puib 於 09-3-8 01:57 編輯 ]


男爵府

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發表於 09-3-9 00:57 |顯示全部帖子
我囡囡兩歲時佢己經有個半歲嘅妹妹
我都要一個睇兩個+做晒所有家務
我煮飯時我都會畀佢地睇電視
我細女仲細時我大女成日都話想幫我手
咁我就叫佢幫我手煮飯囉
擔張櫈畀佢喺升盤叫佢洗下菜呀咁
我大女洗洗下就會玩埋水
畀幾個杯佢,開細水畀佢倒下水
佢好鐘意㗎。咁我又睇到佢,佢自己又覺得幫到我手,佢好有滿足感~

我大女有套小朋友餐具,有把刀好頓嘅
我有時都會叫佢幫我切野
佢幫我手幫到悶咗就會自己就走睇電視

我都係無人幫手嘅
都係等兩個女瞓晒先慢慢做家務
喺兩個女面前都盡量少做家務。
洗衫,抺地,洗碗我都係等兩個女瞓咗先做
喺佢地面前只會煮飯
咁我就多好多時間同佢地玩
到佢地瞓晏覺時就準備晚餐,咁等陣一煮就得


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