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今日d 親戚見到我個女, 個個都話瘦哂, 其實唔係兩三個人講, 而係我 99 及我d 朋友都係咁講, 開初以為係長高了才會瘦左, 但今日我姑姐見到我個食蕉, 就叫stop 左我, 我唔知咩事, 心內只係諗,,,, 姑姐就似99 , 說乜都好, 都要聽, 所以就無比個女繼續食蕉了, 後來姑姐見到我女瞓覺個樣時, 就說了一句, 話我唔識湊佢, 湊到佢瘦哂, 佢問我佢有無痰, 我話勁多, 因我有b b 時無啦啦有哮喘, 所以個女都可能有我遺傳, 又可能係我轉左大仔奶粉唔 arm 所以野痰, 需要再轉. 佢話全因為係香蕉對b b 氣管超級唔好, 我仲一日一隻,,,, 唔咳死就其....

再問我姐姐煲粥份量及肉類 ,,,, (我個女 3 小時食一次野, 每日 3 粥 3 奶, 每次 2 碗粥仲要食哂, 每日痾2 次) 哇, 佢話嚇親人, d 豬肉要碎唔好一條條 , 對個胃已經唔多好, d 粥起水, 又話會療風, 生果只可食蘋果及木瓜 , 無再咳才可食橙 (因人而異, 我個女氣管問題先只可食這些, ), ,,, 唔怪得一日痾2次啦, 因為佢完全唔吸收, 所以咪越來越瘦, 食得多痾得多並不是好事, 而係我唔識湊b,,,, 我勁唔開心, 姐姐直情想cry, 因為佢話佢都覺得我個女瘦左,,姑姐話呀女而家一歲多, 一日 2 餐粥 , 3 餐奶加下午茶就好夠, 仲係每次一碗就足夠

我而家瞓唔著, 才打出來向大家 "申" 下,,, 好唔開心, 好似累左個女敢, 跟著我呢個媽咪,,,,,, 唉!!!!!

[ 本帖最後由 yauyau08 於 09-5-6 09:10 編輯 ]

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恕我多事: 其實吾駛理人地點講, 廋係吾緊要架, 最緊要係亞女健康, 行得,爬得, 玩得, 就得啦! 我個女食野都吾多, 一日食四餐咋, 奶一日只得350ml, 佢都廋架, 不過係冇得逼嘛, 佢有玩冇事冇幹就ok lar, 老人家成日覺得bb要肥先可愛, 呢啲思想太out lar........., 湊b已經好辛苦, 吾好比自己咁大壓力!

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其実家家有家家的湊法。如果你覚得姑姐説得對的話便試試作出改善lor, e+先知都吾遅bor,起埋知道那裏出了問題,Right?

①生果方面可以試下其他,不過就最好不要毎日都一様。同埋咳就一定吾可以食橙 ,even大人都一様！

②豬肉或其他肉類要碎又或者"成舊"煲只要個味不用次次都比bb食的。

③飲食方面其実無定話一定要幾多餐乜幾多餐物。因為bb自己都有要求架ma～
我個女好多時都係1餐粥之馬,佢吾食都無得勉強。

仲有,有時BB吸吾吸収不是大人決定,要睇BB本身架！
不要吾開心la。以後有問題出個Post 取下意見。再吾係米打比我lor~

我平時個d Gathering、無料Playgroup不是斎玩架,其実我地係邊玩邊分享架！
湊好個B先係我地最重要既目的！努力aR~

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係丫,其實你真的唔需要理人點講架,其實bb健康已係最好了,有時真的,未必個個bb,食得好豐富,或食得好多野就肥架,其實好似我地d大人咁,食極都唔肥,道理一樣,我囡囡都係,食極都唔肥,係由細到大,都唔肥架,但健康,有足夠食物比佢,餵足,咁就ok呢,

仲有,學行之後,bb會瘦都唔出奇架,因為佢日日咁係走,無時停,瘦都係正常架

^^ 開心d,bb健康才是重要,

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原帖由 yauyau08 於 09-5-4 00:41 發表
今日d 親戚見到我個女, 個個都話瘦哂, 其實唔係兩三個人講, 而係我 99 及我d 朋友都係咁講, 開初以為係長高了才會瘦左, 但今日我姑姐見到我個食蕉, 就叫stop 左我, 我唔知咩事, 心內只係諗,,,, 姑姐就似99 , 說乜 ...

你唔洗唔開心, 其實點會有媽媽可以講得上好識湊BB, 大家都係學習中!
不過如果別人有好的意見我都會學, 唔好的聽完就算!
如果你女女身體健康, 只是瘦一點都冇咩所謂既!
唔好唔開心喇!

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個個 bb依個時候都覺瘦左架啦，
醫生都話最肥仔係 6個月左右，
我阿波仔夠個個見親都話瘦晒。
仲有人叫我好同阿仔戒人奶，
話飲埋d過氣奶無益，但係各位現今既媽媽一聽就知係 bullshit啦！我阿仔抵抗力都不知幾好，我病幾日，佢都無事。

老實講啦，我覺得天氣係最大關係，
依輪 d 天氣，大人都不停病啦，何妨 bb？

食完就痾，其實可能係脾虛，可能要健脾去濕，如果有疑問最好睇下中醫，問下d飲食調養都好丫。

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Me, too!!

Every time my relatives see my girl also said the same things e.g. thinner than before, no eating..... tell me lot of methods to change.

My ma also tell me the girl of 表哥able to drink 6 oz of milk and she is only 3 months. she is very cute and so on......

by the way, my girl is a whole breast feed girl. she don't like bottle feeding much as she just take around 4 oz of EMB when I am out.

Now she is months,
0730 理身breast milk, around
120ml yogurt, 2 big size
of strawberries
or other fruit, little corn
flakes.
0930/ 1000 理身breast milk if I am @
home otherwise no milk
Time for sleep until lunch
1200/1230 lunch with only 3/4 bowl of
congee and she refuse to
take but fruit is able to
take again e.g. small apple
take 3/4, and also
sometimes 60ml of soup
1330/1400 Bathing
1430 EMB ^ 90-120ml
if I am able to come back
home then she may have
理身breast milk
1700 most likely wake up
only allow little water
1800 Dinner with 3/4 bowl of
congee again
1900 Dinner for papa & mama
my girl also take some 菜
菜，白飯
2000/2100 Time for bed with 理身
breast milk
0000 asking for 理身breast milk again if
I am @ home but if I am
not @ home she is able
to sleep until around
0600-0700

*congee cook with rice, 菜菜 , meat, fish soup, 三文魚！

She is now 14 months around 21-23 lbs. For her it is fit for the weight but everyone said she is thin!! ask me give her less breast milk or not to giving her any more. they said because of me offering her breast, she don't eat congee much and that's why she is thin!!

I really don't know if I continous to breast feeding is correct or not. But some of friends are able to breast feeding until their childern 2 years old.

Should I really stop!!! Actually, breast feeding is really hard for working Ma.it is more difficult for a shift duty working ma like me. my gril and I enjoy the feeding time a lot. she is so satisfied, sweet and cheerful showing on her face!!

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其實你囡囡幾重呀? 你猛話佢瘦, 咁健康院有無話bb生長有問題呢?
其實bb日日肯玩肯食又有得疴, 已經好好, 肥瘦都好睇個人, 有d係肥底, 有d係瘦底, 無乜大問題。
唔好太執著其他人嘅睇法, 自己覺得ok就可以啦!

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I think it is nonsense that baby can eat more after quitting breast milk. Unless, you are not going to feed her any milk including formula milk.

I have heard once a mother claims that her baby really eat more & better after quitting mother's milk. However, I think that is something concerning meals schedule.

My boy drink only 3-time of 80-90ml breast milk when I am on work. Less than your daugther does. It is really hard for working mum to breastfeed their babies.
He is now 20-21lbs at 13-month old.
I really believe I should continue to give him breastmilk. He is a healthy & happy baby, and that is a strong proof of our "right" decision.

原帖由 chin####g25 於 09-5-4 11:52 發表
Me, too!!

Every time my relatives see my girl also said the same things e.g. thinner than before, no eating..... tell me lot of methods to change.

My ma also tell me the girl of 表哥able to drink 6 ...

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Agree...agree!!!!最憎人話我唔識湊個仔,多多無聊意見我會發佢圍

!!!

係囉......湊仔邊有model answer,佢話係就係牙?!!我個仔1日都poo poo兩至3次喎,唔係疴得多就唔消化喎! 你囡囡d poo poo有冇見倒d1粒粒唔消化嘅嘢先,如果冇就人類係消化咗d嘢食至有poo poo嫁喎!!!

香蕉其實係涼嫁,又真係麻麻地,奶蕉(細細隻嗰d)就好ok嫁,我都間中俾我隻寶食嫁。不過都唔好日日蕉啦,其實apple就最正氣,"怎"住食都唔怕!!!

我都係成日上嚟bk傾吓睇吓咁,就知道好多湊bb嘅智識,develop咗一套湊仔經喺嗰腦度嫁,唔會人哋講一句我就听晒喎,順口講一句批評人幾咁易呀,你叫佢嚟凑吖(不過佢肯我都唔制

!!!)。我覺得e度d bk媽媽仲叻過晒佢哋喎.........所以唔洗唔開心瞓唔着呀,瞓得夠至有精力湊你囡囡嘛!!

I'm sure u are a good mom

!!! +油呀!!!

原帖由 echo_seng 於 09-5-4 07:55 發表
對唔住都要講一句，我好憎人話我唔識湊我個仔，所以我都好替你唔開心！

我真係唔知乜野叫識湊，有model answer咩？個磅數好勁，就叫識湊？唔係化？

最重要係你個囡囡係咪食得，玩得，精精神神咪得law！就算你囡囡磅數唔達標，你都唔想，個女 ...

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每個人都用自己把尺去量度人地的做法, 係好唔啱...

正如echo所講, 邊樹有model answer架...

bb食得又疴得, 唔係好正常架咩?

我仔到而家14個月多喇, 從來未試過飲到超過7安奶...有時一日食得一碗粥/粉...我仔都係人地眼中瘦果類, 但係醫院啲姑娘話, 只要佢手仔腳仔係有肉就得架喇, 唔一定要係一截截果種架!

You are very special, There is no one just like you
Created by the Master, God made you to be you
You are very special, Exclusively designed
You are very special, And I'm so glad you're mine

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係囉, 呢度咁多 mama 支持, 大家分享下慢慢學囉

1. 磅數唔駛好刻意既, 人人遺傳都唔同啦, 身體健康少病痛就ok

2. 會唔會 bb 咳咳令佢訓得唔好? 影響吸收同訓覺既質素? 係就要對症下藥....蕉糖分高+寒, 唔好食咁多. 蘋果, 梨對小朋友係冇咁敏感, 可以試下

3. 粥方面: 咩叫一條條呢? 本日我bb 係食免治肉碎既, 煮時攪大力dd 已經會散晒, 好方便; 朱肉/ 牛肉 (牛肉有d bb 會敏感) 都ok

4. 一日兩次大便: 有冇太硬/ 太軟? 上面既 mama 講得arm 架, bb 自己想食就比佢食囉

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My bb have 2-3 times poo a day too. I suspect this is because he has too much fruits. I heard too much fructose (in fruits) can make bb bloats and poo more. Banana is high in fructose.
My bb's thin too...He's breastfed but nobody will say that's the reason he's thin, because they know I will ignore them

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I also ignore them but every time when I heard that I feel a bit ? for myself. Although I would continous to feed my girl with breast milk until she don't want any more.

Thanks for sharing.

"最憎人話我唔識湊個仔,多多無聊意見我會發佢圍" agreed!! but if one is my ma, 99 or relatives then I would not say anythings! especailly the relatives from my Husband.

我會發佢圍 tried before to my 99 then she talk 3 talk 4 to other relatives la!! and everyone show me I am a difficult person to go with.

so... I just pretend hear and forgot! but of course sometimes, fire buring deeply in my heart!!

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原帖由 yauyau08 於 09-5-4 00:41 發表
今日d 親戚見到我個女, 個個都話瘦哂, 其實唔係兩三個人講, 而係我 99 及我d 朋友都係咁講, 開初以為係長高了才會瘦左, 但今日我姑姐見到我個食蕉, 就叫stop 左我, 我唔知咩事, 心內只係諗,,,, 姑姐就似99 , 說乜 ...

好羡慕你有個咁好既姑姐識咁多野。。。佢講野幾有道理。。。香蕉好寒唔可以日日食。。。
我都覺得bb唔係肥就好，但都唔應該瘦過以前，最緊要健康。。。

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原帖由 yauyau08 於 09-5-4 00:41 發表
今日d 親戚見到我個女, 個個都話瘦哂, 其實唔係兩三個人講, 而係我 99 及我d 朋友都係咁講, 開初以為係長高了才會瘦左, 但今日我姑姐見到我個食蕉, 就叫stop 左我, 我唔知咩事, 心內只係諗,,,, 姑姐就似99 , 說乜 ...

千祈唔好唔開心啦, bb係我地生, 我地湊, 个个做人阿媽都希望仔囡開心,健康(唔係肥!)
正如我地上嚟, 除咗吹水同分享, 我地都会聽吓其他媽咪既湊仔心得, 有d方法arm用, 有d no, 千祈唔好因為d親朋戚友搞到自已唔開心! 放開d啦! 我地十卜十卜你

至於你姑姐番「禁蕉言論」, 咪試吓留番d蕉自已吔住先, 睇吓会唔会好d,