catfishhome,
i do remember you as you are the very hardworking mom and reall want to bf, so regret to hear you want to quit.
but understand your situations and pressures from your family, which you find difficulty in making decision.
however, first of all, ask yourself whether you want to quit or only because of the pressures from your family? i think it is no need to tell you again the benefits of breastfeeding, but i believe your difficult time will pass very soon, since your baby is only 3months, he is during the fast-growing period, which always needs sucking and has the milk frequently .
also, from the view of the 3rd parties, who do not have knowledge about breastfeeing, they always feel baby too 痴身. However, whether baby is 痴身 or not, it is not totally due to breastfeeding, but also the character of the baby himself, or the raising method. .
i would suggest you :
1) sleep with baby, then eventhough he is sucking into your breast, you can still sleep, so you need not woke up at the night and make him sleep again.
so long as he receives the security,and he sleeps with you, he can sleep longer and sweatly.
2) try to locate a partime to help your homework, like washing the bowls, cleaning, taking care of your dog.
3) you can consider using baby sling or traditional indonesia sling, so you can still work at home if you are carrying him.
see below BABY SLING
also, for babies between 0 - 1 year, they have the sucking needs, because they lack of security, so you should be proud that you are the only one who can satsify him by breastmilk.
also, read from the study of DR.Sears, if too earlier weaning介, it will have negative impact in his mental
development.
hope you can consider again, and if any question, please share.
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