agree agree. also don't let小朋友 know / see you 唔忍心 & 好心痛 ar~ you should try your best to present / show the positive side of 返學~ don't say things negative .. e.g. don't ask 'why don't you want to go school ar?" instead you should ask "what did you play at school ar? " or "let's go play with xxx -person or toy... at school la"~~ don't even give them a hope / idea that there is something called "唔返學"
back in Jan when enoch first started pre-nursery... my 99 is the one who took my boy to take the school shuttle after the first week.. since then, my boy started to cry and refuse to go to school .... well, partially was because even my 99's mindset was "he is too young to go school. " & "if he cries, we shouldn't force him".. so, everyday she took him, she will also show 唔忍心 and 不捨.. kids are so smart... they will "打蛇隨棍上"... even cry louder and even act more serious on 唔想返學~~~
so, I talked with my boy daily on the positive side of 返學.. and also give him the idea that even crying won't make him be able to skip school~~ on the other hand, of course also need to do as Angel小茵 said .. try to communicate with the teacher more often (call them daily).. and see if there is anything in school that might upset your 小朋友~~ if teacher said 小朋友 acts very happily once he/she is in the classroom.. then it means 小朋友 has fun in school la... the crying is just to give it a try to see if adult will give in when they insist.......................
My daughter likes to go to school bor.. every day when she gets off the school bus, she says 返學好好玩, 好開心呀! In fact I don't know why she's so happy, but I believe the teachers treat her well.
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