1) should ask for for the ex-employers mobile number to verify why she is terminated...could be other reasons..she may be lying
2) if financial problem is the real reason, she does not have to return to Phil and apply a job from there, waiting at least 2-3 months and pay 6-months salary as commission. If she can get a job within 14 days, she can stay in HK and start earning $$ asap, commission is only a few hundred HKD. That is why she wants a job within 14 days instead of going back.
Phil govt will NEVER refuse her return. She appears to be dishonest or mistaken.
I terminated a Bun last month cos she is a big liar and she stole things from my house like crazy....she worked for the same employer for 12 yrs before she worked for me and I also talked to her ex-boss, who said she is 'clean on hands & feet'......
But, still, she lied on whatever she can.....besides stealing, she really loves to have her own ideas to do this and that but at the very first month, very behaved. I have 2 dogs, one of them has 'human food allergy' and can cause serious skin problem....told her thousand times not to feed my dog with her own bread...but she wants to please the dogs to 'follow her more', she did it in front of us...when my sister shouted at her 'You don't give the bread to my dog', she dared to say 'siu siu la'...then my sister said 'siu your X X'...but she still quickly put the bread inside my dog's month....
Well, I think the bun who stays in HK for too long, is too 'gu wak' and can lie like they're telling the truth.....The one that i fired, her first name is "MargariXX"...
原帖由 cutiebee 於 09-11-8 23:36 發表
I terminated a Bun last month cos she is a big liar and she stole things from my house like crazy....she worked for the same employer for 12 yrs before she worked for me and I also talked to her ex-bo ...
我唔明白點解你剛炒的bun的 ex-boss 說'clean on hands & feet'......
I think the only possible answer is, her ex-boss was very 'strict' to her.....cos that bun told me every time she went out, her ex-boss must check her bag...when she returned home, same same...or, her ex-boss really trusted her LIES.
She always talked about how bad her own boss was, non stopped.....so at the end, I had to tell her "if you ex-boss treated u so bad, how come you renewed your contract again and again....and if she didn't teach you how to clean, you wouldn't be able to do how good you are doing....if u know nothing, I wouldn't hire you at all..so you shouldn't say bad things about your ex-boss like this. Before I hired you, you ex-boss said how good you were....you still say she is so bad to you?"...she then shut up of course...
Well, can only say this bun is 'heartless'....greedy....u know she goes to church every Sunday. My sister once asked her all in a sudden "you ever confessed at church? if not, you better be careful that after you die, you will go to hell because you lie all the time!".. ahhahahahhah
After we hired her, she still though we didn't find out her 'stealing'. Daring to ask if she couldn't find a place to stay, could she stay at our home.......she was just NUTS! I suddenly fired her, of course some problem of her own la......ai.....
typo on my last paragraph...should be: "after we fired her, she still thought we didn't know about her stealing... " :) Too 'Gick Dong' everytime i talk about this bun!!!
But when I talked to her ex-boss, really didn't feel she was the 'lo lum' wor....because she told me the reason why she terminated her and said something like 'you know lar, when the buns want something, they can say yes to all your request but once you terminate her, you don't know what she will do'. Accordingly to my ex-bun, her ex-boss (the wife), just play mahjong everyday and asked her to take care of the home things.....
Anyway la.....it really depends on LUCK whether we can find a good bun.....but i guess we also need to learn to be the boss, not to say we have to show the boss face, of course we need to be reasonable but really, can't treat them like friends or family....
No one is perfect in this world and even if the maid's personality is good, we still need to fine-tune her to match with our family's 'style'...Hope I can find a better one soon....