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cutebear123


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發表於 10-1-25 12:52 |只看該作者
I am first time to engage Phil. maid and she started to work my house several days.

As she hasn't brought towel, soap, toothpaste, etc. I give some for her. Is it required to supply these for her afterwards?

During these few days, she sometimes makes requests like provide more dishes for me during taking meal in the restaurant. Now, she asks for us to provide accessories such as coffee, etc. Is it better to provide this for her?

I am worry to let her make more requests subsequently. As I am working mami, I am worry that she would not perform well afterwards and gives me "Black face". What can I do?

[ 本帖最後由 cutebear123 於 10-1-25 12:55 編輯 ]
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FA8866


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發表於 10-1-25 13:22 |只看該作者
好多工人都以為一開口僱主肯就食住上,知僱主會買佢地怕.
首先您唔好驚佢黑面先,您要識Say NO!!!
您可以先平心靜氣同佢講:會提供3餐足夠及所須食物比佢,但...另外既要求我會按您工作表現而比,現階段我唔認為係適當時侯.

您就睇下佢做成點先再決定比唔比.
先同佢客氣,如佢黑面,您要強硬d,亦唔駛同佢轉彎抹角,直接問佢咩事???您到時就可比佢知您威嚴,等佢知黑面對佢係無著數的.
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cutebear123


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發表於 10-1-25 14:45 |只看該作者
Thanks for your advice.

Is it our responsibility to provide all these like towel, soap, shampoo, coffee, tea, etc. to maid? Is it common to provide these to maid? Phil. maid is always making requests? Compared with Indo. maid, is it more easy-going?

I just replied her to discuss with my husband.

Because she is responsible for taking care of one little kid and one baby together with my husband's mother. So, we am worry that she treated my baby and kid not well if we refuse her.



原帖由 FA8866 於 10-1-25 13:22 發表
好多工人都以為一開口僱主肯就食住上,知僱主會買佢地怕.
首先您唔好驚佢黑面先,您要識Say NO!!!
您可以先平心靜氣同佢講:會提供3餐足夠及所須食物比佢,但...另外既要求我會按您工作表現而比,現階段我唔認為係適當時 ...
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發表於 10-1-25 15:00 |只看該作者
We are not required to provide personal hygiene products like towels, soap, shampoo, slippers etc. However, as a nice gesture, I bought her some as a welcoming gift, telling her after she finishes she has to buy her own. If she questions u, ask the agent to explain to her.

As for coffee and tea. Most maids need that for energy to work. I just buy her coffee from the wet market.1 big tin can for $78 (Nestle).500g.

GIve her enough meat and veggie, if she is still hungry, add more rice or scambled eggs.

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發表於 10-1-25 15:30 |只看該作者
基本上你只雖比僱傭合約上有寫既野比佢, 其他佢自己D個人物品係唔雖要提供比佢既. 你個新黎工人咩都問你要, 你可以同佢講呢D野係佢自己要比錢買既, 你可以借住100幾十佢買D日用品,到佢出糧時扣返. 另外咖啡等飲品如果佢做得都OK既可以買比佢飲, 如果做野做得衰就免問.
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發表於 10-1-25 15:32 |只看該作者
原帖由 cutebear123 於 10-1-25 14:45 發表
Thanks for your advice.

Is it our responsibility to provide all these like towel, soap, shampoo, coffee, tea, etc. to maid? Is it common to provide these to maid? Phil. maid is always making reques ...

我自己就會提供日用品比工人[私人衛生品除外],但唔係佢要求而係我比,佢初黎時我問佢有無買,佢話無,不過佢會自己買[佢當時本身已係hk6年工作經驗]咁我同佢講,我買比您啦,不過私人衛生品就唔買啦,因為我地中國人唔會買呢d比人,要佢自己買.我同佢講,我希望佢早晚沖涼同每日都洗頭,所以我會買比佢,之後用完同我講,但唔可以用僱主個d.
後來我發現佢好耐都無同我講要再買,就問佢用完未?原來佢唔敢叫我買,所以自己去買.依家我都會隔一段時間去望下佢用晒未,一來買番比佢,二來睇下佢究竟有無唔沖涼.
coffee我工人唔飲,但佢飲紅茶&練奶,我都有買比佢,但都係佢做耐左我先放手比佢買,初黎時我都無主動買比佢,見佢做得好我同佢去超市時先問佢想飲咩才買.

我工人係我度6年,好少要求我要買乜買物的,佢都係菲.
我覺得唔好一開頭就放得太鬆,寧願見佢幫得手時先逐樣鬆比佢.好過一放難收.
p.s. 我工人都係進入老seafood行列,家陣我都好少理佢,extra既我當bonus,佢一年如用得我狼既,年尾佢收既利是就會少番啫.
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cutebear123


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發表於 10-1-25 18:08 |只看該作者
Thanks.

Maybe, I do wrongly at the beginning. Entertain her request easily, e.g. use washing machine to wash and dry her clothes. Today, I found she use my washing machine two times to wash and dry a small amount of her clothes.

Is it too late to let her set some rules and regulations?

Since she is working in my house several days, she performs not too bad, but I don't know if it is common for all new comer maid?



原帖由 FA8866 於 10-1-25 15:32 發表

我自己就會提供日用品比工人[私人衛生品除外],但唔係佢要求而係我比,佢初黎時我問佢有無買,佢話無,不過佢會自己買[佢當時本身已係hk6年工作經驗]咁我同佢講,我買比您啦,不過私人衛生品就唔買啦,因為我地中國人唔會 ...
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