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[2009年] BB好惡又成日丟東西 [複製鏈接]

chanhm

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又鍾意玩free fall (成個人由企響度撲向前，或瞓向後）好得人驚，之前響床玩都不以為意，依家響地下玩，或者響梳化瞓落地。又鍾意玩牆壁的電插，佢會望下我先，我一話ｎｏ佢就即插喇，

打手手都唔怕，仲打番我隻手。又鬧人，又話打我。
你地ｂｂ係咪咁咖？你地會安全地由得佢”探索”嗎？我都唔想成日ｓａｙ　ｎｏｎｏｎｏ．．．

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原帖由 chanhm 於 10-4-20 10:00 發表
又鍾意玩free fall (成個人由企響度撲向前，或瞓向後）好得人驚，之前響床玩都不以為意，依家響地下玩，或者響梳化瞓落地。又鍾意玩牆壁的電插，佢會望下我先，我一話ｎｏ佢就即插喇，打手手都唔怕，仲打番我隻手。又鬧人，又話打我 ...

我個仔同你個B好似. 我用以下方法教佢. lee個只是我自己教法, 不喜勿插.

1) 家居安全最重要, 我己封晒所有唔用嘅電插. 我個仔曾經玩電線, 玩到好似騎馬咁, 攞住條電線勁"fing", 我就NO佢, 跟手再攞其他玩具去分散佢的注意力. 時間耐咗,宜家冇再玩電線.
2)free fall都係太問題, 我係一個冇耐性嘅mama, 我發覺每次飛埋去接住佢都唔係辦法. 因此有一次我比佢自己跌落地, 當然係由企喺度跌, 唔係由高處跌下. 我當然都唔肯定lee個方法work 唔work. 之後就跌多2次, 佢就知唔好玩+會痛, 所以冇再free fall la.
3)我自己唔會想用"打"嘅方法去教, 因為唔想佢以為"打"係可以解決問題, 亦唔想佢好容易就對人郁手.其實身教都好重要.
4)小朋友有咩唔妥當嘅時, 試下分散下佢哋注意力啦.

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Mrs.Kangaroo

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1) we also 封晒所有唔用嘅電插, but still let him turn on/off.

2) my baby did once in front of me and I didn't know what he was doing....so, he hit the floor hard...and I told daddy and found that daddy once let him fall and then told/explained to him that free fall is pain, should not do it etc....they need to know it's pain/hurt then they stop play free fall.

3) I realized that hit his hand is no use and he copied me because now he hit me when I said No to him or not listen to him. I will try to explain more instead of hit him.

4) my baby use to 丟東西 a lot especially when he sitting on the high chair, but then, I told him "if you don't want it, give mami" every time when he throw the stuff. Also, I pick it up and let him give it to me. now, most of the time he will give to me instead of throw them away.

Birth 15/3: W:4.2kg L:52cm HC:37.5cm
Day 09: W:4.37kg L:55.5cm HC:37cm
Day 46: W:7kg L:62m HC40.5cm
Day 82: W:~9.2kg L:~66cm
Day 112: W:~10.4kg

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ng1211

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發表於 10-4-22 12:38 |只看該作者

我個女都有玩free fall 的時候,
有一次我打到佢"甘甘地"之後話唔準,佢就唔玩, 玩其他o野.
佢都有丟東西, 但丟完我通想都唔比番佢玩.

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marcomin

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我個仔勁鍾意在highchair or playpen丟玩具, 但佢唔係發脾氣, 只係覺得好玩... 初初每次丟, 我老公都話NO!, 但越話NO佢就越丟, 會渣住玩具準備丟, 然後望下我老公, 跟住就放手! ...而家, 佢丟玩具時我地唔理佢, 佢反而覺得無癮, 開始唔丟...

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jenniecatcat

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原帖由 marcomin 於 10-4-22 15:33 發表
我個仔勁鍾意在highchair or playpen丟玩具, 但佢唔係發脾氣, 只係覺得好玩... 初初每次丟, 我老公都話NO!, 但越話NO佢就越丟, 會渣住玩具準備丟, 然後望下我老公, 跟住就放手! ...而家, 佢丟玩具時我地唔理佢, 佢反 ...

係呀, 我地唔想佢做既野會話佢知唔好, 不過佢一定唔會立刻識, 但都要講佢知先.

如果佢係個種望住你先丟個隻呢, 你就要唔好俾反應佢, 直頭唔望佢.

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