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webjen

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忍著淚同媽媽奶說goodbye

hello各位親愛o既奶媽
我番左黎啦!!!好耐無上黎,真係彷如隔世........
我係餵左1年零1月零4日之後已經無再餵啦,大家可能覺得好surprise,我自己都好surprise,不過世事往往好難預料....
係前2個星期,我仲好開心同大家講我做完手術,好順利,會繼續努力,可能我真係太自滿,太天真....原來一切只係惡夢o既開始....醫生發現我身體有更大o既問題,係可以致命o既問題,好快我再入院做左另一次手術,呢次係一個大型手術,而且我需要開始長期食藥,雖然醫生無話一定要介奶,但係我&家人怕我身體好難再付荷,我掙扎左好耐,曾經想無論點都繼續,到入院之前我仲堅持餵奶.....但係為左自己身體,為左要養好身體見到靖蕎長大,我不得不下呢個最難下o既決定.......
依家我心痛,傷口痛,再加谷奶痛,好似石頭,但係我唔可以餵,尋日我仲飲左淡豆豉,好似人飲毒酒咁.....
所有人都鼓勵我,叫我加油,話我其實好叻可以餵咁耐,但係呢個真係一個遺憾,係靖蕎剛識叫"奶奶",剛識起我件拉衫o既時候.....
呢件事發生之後,對我黎講真係改變左好多,一切o既事都變得唔重要,睇到靖蕎長大係我唯一o既希望....

[size=medium]後加: 這個已經是 05 年的 post,請各位不必再留言啦,謝謝各位好意

我把平安留給你們，我將我的平安賜給你們；我所賜給你們的，不像世界所賜的一樣。你心裏不要煩亂，也不要膽怯。(若 14:27)
Happy moments, praise God. Difficult moments, seek God. Quiet moments, worship God. Painful moments, trust God. Every moment, thank God!!!

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webjen ,

Regret to hear about this. Don't feel frustrated as you have been working the best for her for more than 1 year, you should be proud of it. Breastfeeding is best for baby, however, she now does not rely on breatmilk, which it is no harm to quit because of your health situations. Don't put too much pressures on yourself, your health is most important at this moment. If you are not in good condition, how can you take care of her ? so, it is not bad thing but you have to be brave to face with the next operation, and once you can recover very well, you can enjoy your lovely time with her.

Besides breastfeeding, it is a long road to go how to raise and parent our babies.
I will add it into my prayer, God bless you.

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webjen

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mon,
多謝你,我見到你o既回應都忍唔住想流淚!!
我已經做左第2次手術啦,好快手,由知道到依家前後都係個零星期,無法,要快刀斬亂麻.......

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好唔開心聽到你呢番說話, 不過最緊要係自己身體, 每個做咗人父母都希望可以見到自己仔女大個, kam 就算 c, 都安樂 d, 所以我現在都好怕 c 或者有意外, 連玩機動遊戲都避免. 總之搞好身體, 面對將來

**************************************** 芍妤bb 10/11/2004 在聖保祿醫院出世，體重 2.6Kg。 ****************************************

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Re: 忍著淚同媽媽奶說goodbye

webjen,

when you think about that your support is your daugther, your family, you will have enough faith and brave to face with every challenges.

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webjen,

雖然你唔能夠餵到兩歲, 但你係我心目中, 係時時考第一那一個, very proud of you!!!

我成日講, 你自己要有健康的身體, 才能陪靖蕎成長, 食母乳只是第一個階段, 將來還有慢長和更艱辛的路。

Take care!!!

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hi webjen 記得我嗎?

已經脫離了媽媽奶行列,本不再上這個forum,但見到你忍不住要上來給你打打氣!

早兩星期(剛好是兩星期),我在這兒說自己患了甲狀腺毛病,不得不吃藥根治.餵了九個月的人奶生涯說結束便結束,連考慮的時間也沒有,那時的心情真是直達低點.還記得上來訴苦,你也是其中一個安慰我的人,得到其他媽媽的支持心情亦回復了不少.

完全明白飲淡豆豉水的心情,真的與喝毒藥沒多大分別...喝的是水...吞的是眼淚...

但...千萬不要內疚或傷心,身體真的對自己,對家庭很重要.身體好了,可以繼續對家庭那份承擔與承諾,這才是第一位!

我的仔仔已完全適應沒有媽媽奶的生活,每晚吃完奶便一覺睡到天亮,身體也長胖了,有了個小肚腩呢!雖然沒有吃媽媽奶,他仍然很痴我...常常媽媽的叫我...而我自己的身體也好了很多,可以更投入照顧仔仔及家庭...

加油,祝你早日康復,靖蕎在你的照顧及愛護下快樂成長,將來必定成為一位支持母乳的好媽媽!

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Re: 忍著淚同媽媽奶說goodbye

Webjen,
You already did a good job. Don't give extra pressure to yourself. All we want is to make our baby healthy and happy. If you put too much stress on yourself, they will feel it, too.

The most important thing you have to do now is to strenghen your body so that you have energy to take care of your baby.

Bf is not everything.......but our love is.

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webjen,
你講得好啱,一定要好好保養身体,睇住你囡囡長大.加油努力

我唔係講客氣說話,在我眼中你不單是一個好媽媽,也是一個超級好人,相信這裏好多人都受過你鼓勵.你巳做得非常非常好,可以比囡囡食到過咗1歲,跟着下來記着要休息養好身体呀.

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webjen,

知道你的情況亦令我很難過, 亦想起自己當日替囡囡介bf 的情景.
其實, 現在最重要是你自己的身體, 一定要保養好, 來日好好照顧靖蕎...
雖然不能再享受餵媽媽奶之親密, 但放心, 這一定不會影響你與靖蕎之情, 她一樣會依舊愛你, 依賴你, 親近你, 血濃於水之情絕不會有變, 她會從其他方面知道你愛她, 我囡囡現在仍很黏我呀! 所以不要擔心, 靖蕎之成長路仍有太多太多地方需要你, 努力呀!

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My dear Webjen,

I am so sad to hear your news, not only stop breastfeeding, but more also the threatening illness in your body.
I deeply do pray that the second operation can help you for the best illness control and recovery.
More importantly, may God bless you and your family, especially for baby Ching Kiu with all peace, hope and love!!!!!!!!!!!
Here, I would like to send my thank you for your help and advice given me in the past year, so that I can walk smoothly on the breastfeeding road. Thank you!!!!!!!
Hope you can help another breastfeeding moms onwards when you feel better.
Long for see and hear from your news here!
Don't say good bye, we love and miss you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hayes mama

:-( :-( :-( :-( :-(

Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself！

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy！！

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webjen,
今天一上來就見到你的消息, 很突然, 亦很替你難過! 不止對你內心掙扎痛苦難過, 亦替你肉體上要承受多一次手術所帶來的痛楚難道! 但....亦很以你為榮, 你是一個非常勇敢及偉大的媽媽, 所以你不用傷心囡囡再沒有媽媽奶吃, 她有你這麼一個好媽媽已非常難得!
母乳只是成長的一部份, 沒有你, 有再多的媽媽奶都無意義, 快些收拾心情養好身體照顧囡囡吧!

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Hello webjen,

I'm so sorry to hear this piece of news from you. I really hope that everything will go smoothly. You know, sometimes, doctors tend to exaggerate the prognosis of a disease. It may not be as grey as it sounds.

I've once known a mother who's had two very nasty diseases and required two big operations at the same time. At that time, her daughter was only a few months old. She was very brave and had managed it well.

To me, I think you'll be even more courageous. Breastfeeding mums are well-trained with endurance and perserverance already. I'm sure you'll face this challenge which lies ahead of you with no fear.

Breastmilk or no breastmilk? You've already given the best you can to your little girl. Plus, you've shared your experience with so many breastfeeding mums and helped those newcomers, like myself, with true sincerity. You've already done so much!

You know, when you've tried your best, God (or whoever you believe in) will handle the rest.

All the best and get well soon!

Lulube was born weighing 3.2 kg

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webjen
真係覺得好突然呀!不過到係身體緊要,你冇咩野呀?
如果身體唔好都湊唔到靖蕎啦,餵到過一歲都唔簡單嫁啦...

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webjen
呢幾日都覺得奇怪, 唔見你在bk
唔可以餵媽媽奶, 你依然係個super & 偉大的mama
人奶係無價寶, 但健康更是寶中寶!!!
女女人生有好多階段都需要你支持,
積極向前看, 睇下遲d靖蕎會唔會變成肥妹仔?!! :mrgreen:
保重身體!!!

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webjen,
9月奶媽, 所有bk奶媽都會支持你, 你而家最重要係有好既身體, 靖蕎要既不單是媽媽奶, 係媽媽!! 你屋企要既都唔係你堅持餵人奶, 而係要你同佢地一齊過往後既日子; 媽媽奶係一個階段, bb時期都係一個階段, 日後仲有漫長既日子要共同渡過, 你要睇住靖蕎成長, 睇住佢亭亭玉立, 睇住佢學業有成, 睇住佢嫁個好似靖蕎爸咁好既男人............ 好明白呢個係難做既決定, 係令人難過既決定, 我都為你難過, 但停餵係遲早既事, 你只係早左少少, 我衷心祝你早日康復.

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webjen,
你已經好叨，我好佩服你的毅力。
為你祈禱，願神保護你，賜你健康。

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webjen,

你要take good care 自已，我們依班bf mama一定支持你的。你要多D休息，快D好番，因為你的靖蕎也希望見到一個開心快樂的媽咪。We all love you!!

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webjen 寫道:
所有人都鼓勵我,叫我加油,話我其實好叻可以餵咁耐,但係呢個真係一個遺憾,係靖蕎剛識叫"奶奶",剛識起我件拉衫o既時候.....
呢件事發生之後,對我黎講真係改變左好多,一切o既事都變得唔重要,睇到靖蕎長大係我唯一o既希望....

webjen,

我明白要同媽媽奶說goodbye係一個辛苦, 艱辛的決定, 但我亦想告訴你, 同媽媽奶說goodbye係一個明智, 理性的決定. 如果你唔好好照顧自己的健康, 以帶病的身體, 你又如何好好照顧靖蕎呢.

"睇到靖蕎長大係我唯一o既希望" ~ 是的, 健康係無價寶! 我祝你健健康康地睇住靖蕎長大, 出嫁, 生仔, 幫靖蕎湊仔!
你要小心照顧自己的身體, 好好咁休養, 乖乖唔好做d對傷口無益的動作呀!

加油!!!