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大宅

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發表於 11-12-12 09:39 |顯示全部帖子
I got married for 15 years. The present(s) my 99 gave us for our wedding were 2 single quilts => she expected my husband & I not to share a quilt. So we did not..... I gave up my very high quality down feather quilt from Australia......
She kept buying cotton / silk quilt - from Shenzhen for us.... These few days, my husband said his quilt was not warm enough (me too). Of course not, I don't know what's in it anymore. We continued to use them out of respect for my 99.

A few days ago, she bought ONE single quilt from 工展會 & it's made of camel hair. Camel hair? Since when does camel hair become hip for quilt filling? The size is not the same as before, it doesn't fit into our existing quilt cover. She gave us another one, a used one, with floral patterns in green & beige. OMG!

I looked up the internet for the brand of quilt that my 99 bought. It's made in China, no frills. So I immediately asked my maid to swap it back! With due respect, when can she stop stuffing us with things we don't really want!



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發表於 11-12-12 09:47 |顯示全部帖子

回覆:99+工展會

You are a very good daughter in law, I wont accept something that i dont want.




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發表於 11-12-12 10:44 |顯示全部帖子

引用:I+got+married+for+15+years.+The+present(

原帖由 Jsmami 於 11-12-12 發表
I got married for 15 years. The present(s) my 99 gave us for our wedding were 2 single quilts => she ...
Give them to your maid and use your down quilt. Some 99s are wired......they somehow think that only the QULAITY products they bought are of real high quality...........



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男爵府

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發表於 11-12-12 10:50 |顯示全部帖子
just tell her directly that you have got your own quilt already. no need to buy you 2 anymore. even you have said this to your 99, she may still do the same thing, but if you never tell her, she will absolutely continue to do so. bless you.

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tantanmama  agree. do tell your 99 that you don't need it. or else she will definitely continue to buy.  發表於 11-12-12 11:10


珍珠宮

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發表於 11-12-12 10:51 |顯示全部帖子
講完多謝就將佢入落密封既袋掟埋一二邊,然後自己買過張靚架啦~
你有冇聽過大陸黑心棉?
聽過你就一定唔會再想掂~
同埋你應該叫你老公同佢講清楚,有野你地自己會買,叫佢唔好買比你地啦~ 好聽d講咪"唔知啱唔啱你地用"、"可能size唔啱"、"可能你地已經有"等等~


大宅

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發表於 11-12-12 11:46 |顯示全部帖子

回覆:99+工展會

I am using camel hair quilt n I find it very warm!maybe mine is a good quality one that my mum bought me!




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發表於 11-12-12 12:18 |顯示全部帖子

回覆:99+工展會

收埋奶奶送嗰張,用自己嗰張,入左被袋佢點知喎!




大宅

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發表於 11-12-12 12:40 |顯示全部帖子
麟媽媽 發表於 11-12-12 12:18
收埋奶奶送嗰張,用自己嗰張,入左被袋佢點知喎!



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發表於 11-12-12 13:19 |顯示全部帖子

引用:收埋奶奶送嗰張,用自己嗰張,入左被袋佢點

原帖由 麟媽媽 於 11-12-12 發表
收埋奶奶送嗰張,用自己嗰張,入左被袋佢點知喎!





男爵府

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發表於 11-12-12 14:35 |顯示全部帖子
The most weird thing is not she's keeping buying you quilt, but why she bought the 'single' quilt to you and your husband? Are there any meaning behind? Or actually you and your husband used to have your own quilt?

If you're not living with your 99, than just accpet the qulit then put them aside; or just use your own down feather quilt from Australia and tell your 99 that that's a gift from your friend.


大宅

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發表於 11-12-12 15:49 |顯示全部帖子
It's at your own discretion whether or not to use the stuff your 99 bought u. You are so obedient all along.

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