I got married for 15 years. The present(s) my 99 gave us for our wedding were 2 single quilts => she expected my husband & I not to share a quilt. So we did not..... I gave up my very high quality down feather quilt from Australia......
She kept buying cotton / silk quilt - from Shenzhen for us.... These few days, my husband said his quilt was not warm enough (me too). Of course not, I don't know what's in it anymore. We continued to use them out of respect for my 99.
A few days ago, she bought ONE single quilt from 工展會 & it's made of camel hair. Camel hair? Since when does camel hair become hip for quilt filling? The size is not the same as before, it doesn't fit into our existing quilt cover. She gave us another one, a used one, with floral patterns in green & beige. OMG!
I looked up the internet for the brand of quilt that my 99 bought. It's made in China, no frills. So I immediately asked my maid to swap it back! With due respect, when can she stop stuffing us with things we don't really want!
原帖由 Jsmami 於 11-12-12 發表
I got married for 15 years. The present(s) my 99 gave us for our wedding were 2 single quilts => she ...
Give them to your maid and use your down quilt. Some 99s are wired......they somehow think that only the QULAITY products they bought are of real high quality...........
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just tell her directly that you have got your own quilt already. no need to buy you 2 anymore. even you have said this to your 99, she may still do the same thing, but if you never tell her, she will absolutely continue to do so. bless you.
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tantanmama
agree. do tell your 99 that you don't need it. or else she will definitely continue to buy.
發表於 11-12-12 11:10
The most weird thing is not she's keeping buying you quilt, but why she bought the 'single' quilt to you and your husband? Are there any meaning behind? Or actually you and your husband used to have your own quilt?
If you're not living with your 99, than just accpet the qulit then put them aside; or just use your own down feather quilt from Australia and tell your 99 that that's a gift from your friend.