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本帖最後由 capricornbb 於 12-1-5 00:13 編輯

妳又不需太自責吧! 我們做FTM在家看住工人, 怎樣也放心過在職媽媽不知工人在家做什麼呀!

我第一次請工人咋, 未敢話自己係太太, 我請工人用意係有個人在我忙緊阿囡o野/在家工作時, 有個助手幫手做吓o野,我同阿囡換片有人幫我掉吓垃圾咁架咋~

所以, 以她們的工作態度, 我只能說, 有個人分擔吓, 好過無人幫手, 自己做晒仲死呀...

不過呢! 我仲有一個阿Q精神,佢o地日薪大約$120, 香港最低工資$28X4, 即係佢o地只要有4小時係 pay attention, 其他o野不太過份我都隻眼開隻眼閉架啦!

我自己條線都好低, 佢做o左D唔o岩指示o既o野, 我會不厭其煩咁重覆教佢/示範俾佢睇o架, 如果佢提議o的o野, 有時真係o岩我用, 我都會OK, 不過真係唔接受, 我都會同佢講一次, 等佢明白我有俾機會, 雖然佢show 唔 like樣, 但最後都係照番我意思做, 做完我會自己check, 不會再話佢, 我話佢自己都口臭和o徒氣, 佢做到就算架啦~~

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licpd  不厭其煩咁重覆教佢/示範俾佢睇o架 -- my helper also needs me to do the same.  發表於 12-1-5 09:06


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佢o地日薪大約$120 - this is WRONG. You have not counted in meal expenses ($1000+ a month), accommodation expenses ($1500 based on $50/day in boarding house and sure your place is far much better + free use of water and electricity), return ticket, medical insurance. This amounts to $6500 a month or more.

Based on their 26 working days a month, their daily wage is $250, which is 8.9 times of $28. Besides, they do not have travel expense. Are they working as efficient as those workers in the catering and cleaning sectors?

The reality is - we take or leave it. Given the stay in nature of their job, it is really a big struggle as it is not easy to subsituted by local EE. I tried to find a local EE that can stay till 9pm but it is difficult as many local EEs have to cook dinner at home.

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capricornbb  就係因為咁, 我都要焗請外傭囉...  發表於 12-1-6 00:15
Mangosteen  YES!  發表於 12-1-5 14:30


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發表於 12-1-5 09:01 |只看該作者
I'm also a FTM and my helper has exactly the same issues as yours but since i didnt expect much from the helper so she's still here working for me. The reason i still keep her is she doesnt steal and no black face. For the things she does wrong, i would repeatedly tell her in a calm way until she gets it. Once in a while, i might go in the kitchen and help her make dinner and she seems to appreciate it and do a better job. She's good at cleaning and so so at cooking, same problem as your helper it takes long time 4 hrs to make a simple dinner including cleaning. I've hired few helpers before and i noticed every helper has different problems and main thing is they have good attitude and wants to have a job. If its ability issue, you might need to give them more time to learn to meet your requirements. I've hired smart helpers before but then they might have attitude problem so i think i'm yet to get one that has it all.

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capricornbb  所以第時我都要做一個外傭福利的本地住家EE先  發表於 12-1-6 00:27
333s  maid 份工真係100%, 易打過一般香港打工仔. 10-12小時工作.  發表於 12-1-5 10:01


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capricornbb 發表於 12-1-5 00:11
妳又不需太自責吧! 我們做FTM在家看住工人, 怎樣也放心過在職媽媽不知工人在家做什麼呀!

我第一次請工人咋 ...


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我好鍾意你這句說話:"我仲有一個阿Q精神,佢o地日薪大約$120, 香港最低工資$28X4, 即係佢o地只要有4小時係 pay attention, 其他o野不太過份我都隻眼開隻眼閉架啦!",睇完後自己都笑咗出嚟!你講得啱,計完後就覺得我係賺咗! ha...ha...



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capricornbb  333s:其實我都好勞碌命架,佢要做o既野,我全部做過晒,要用佢又要教, 都好累  發表於 12-1-6 00:22
333s  向你學EQ 都不错. 自認勞錄命, 而外傭是公主命, 找一个同是勞錄命合作才行.  發表於 12-1-5 09:59


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發表於 12-1-5 09:38 |只看該作者
You are not alone. FTM =/= tai tai !
My last maid is gone (for Christmas) & my new one is yet to come. During the past 3 weeks, I take care of my 2 kids by myself while teaching my son for his exam. My kids get up from bed in time, finish their breakfast & go to school happily. They eat more during dinner as I cook better than my maid... No doubt I am busier without a helper but at least I don't have mood swings!!!!! I don't need to waste time to teach a dumb head & see their black face.

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capricornbb  我都隨時要有心理準備處理哩D非常僱員架!!自己做番mouth:  發表於 12-1-6 00:25
333s  all mom are 24 hrs work with no annual leave & welfare.  發表於 12-1-5 10:00


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發表於 12-1-5 10:46 |只看該作者
好睇你luck唔lucky...請到個好helper


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吓抺地要1 hr? 佢用手抺?


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我個工人同妳個差唔多,都係博炒!佢第二日就同我講佢成日都做錯o野,幾時會炒佢喎!跟住日日都問我同一個問題.我話我唔會炒佢的,我要花好多錢及時間請佢,叫佢比心機d做,又叫佢去agent 度傾下,不過都係無用!

一. agent 幫唔到我,樣樣o野都叫我就佢
二. 個工人都一心諗住來渡假,成日做錯o野博我炒佢

最後佢放假時遲了2個鐘才回來,而且一個電話都無,我仲諗佢唔返,點知返到來就黑口黑臉,我o地都唔知幾擔心,仲諗要唔要報警,佢一個解釋都無,仲話我唔需要比理由.我同我老公真係比佢激到死,咁我o地咪話佢都係想我o地炒佢,我o地就即比一個月通知信佢,佢不知幾開心!

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capricornbb  佢地一來一回當旅遊, 又可以回家探親  發表於 12-1-6 00:29


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本帖最後由 capricornbb 於 12-1-6 00:12 編輯

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係呀....如果個姐姐唔生性,一唔做野, 二黑面, 三大肚.....我o地哩D僱主都好惡頂架, 我之前一直用鐘點,都要包佢食/沖完涼先走, 一個星期來三日, 一個月都5千幾6千架, 佢唔做之後, 我自己一個又真係揍唔掂阿B(我是在家工作o既), 有一次, 我忙緊, 阿B扭計爬過來果吓(我都忍唔住拍枱=_=", 鬧阿B) 搞到佢好驚係咁哭, 之後仲學咪我拍枱呀>_< 連我自己都覺得自己發癲唔多掂, 所以先要焗請姐姐幫手


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發表於 12-1-6 00:48 |只看該作者
感同身受,我個比你的還利害,只用了4個月我炒了她,整爛我很多東西,洗到啲衫變晒色(已教她分色洗),電飯,2個,亞仔件泳衣(只買了2個月),洗爛個仔對波鞋....多不勝數,駁嘴,你和她說她望住你但不會向你道歉,你扣她錢你後果自負,因我有個5歲仔,我不用她照顧佢的,但我仍要自己拾屋,踢一踢,做一做,因她只會幫我(質)屋亂放


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ting-ma 發表於 12-1-4 23:25
4) 抺地 : 1hr ( my flat less than 1000 sq ft) , 洗碗 : 1.5hr, 煮飯: 2hr - > we are only 2 adult + 1 baby , simple dish 2 dishes + 1 simple soup!!
1千呎+ 多家具, 抺地, 拖地 會花時間的.

我沒有 1000呎, 家具算很少 sofa, 飯桌, 組合柜, 電腦台 ----------------抺地/拖地 + 吸塵 30 mins.

洗碗 : 15 min, 有煲, 有wok 其它 30min 煮飯: 1hr, 買菜 30mins.


想不開、就別想. 得不到、就不要.  失去了、繼續笑.  擁有了、要珍惜。
快乐不是拥有的多,而是计较的少。  

生悶氣,發脾氣,煩躁,焦慮,失眠.   是指因生气(生闷气、怒气、着急上火生成的火气、思虑生成的郁气)。
理性討論交流者。


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me too無太太命...


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都驚o架,我唔係只唔順氣唔補$比佢, 我係真係要人幫手,就算我一個月通知佢,我一個月後都請唔切工人!有人幫人我即補$比佢走啦!


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發表於 12-1-6 15:48 |只看該作者
我3年用了5個姐姐, 而家自己做, 日頭有份工, 晚上做家務.但都OK啦, 是辛苦一些, 但已經3個月, 也好好的.

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