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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

minimon

我同你情況好相似，我十一月七號生左個仔，早你bb女一日出世，我陀咗三十九週二日, bb就要出來喇~我本身雖然都可以話忍得痛，但就好細膽，咩都驚一餐，我都係諗住順產的，不過我就唔敢係政府生，因為怕會無人理我，得自己一個我會好驚的~我唔想自己叫到無力生，咁我就去左私家生喇~生既過程我都幾辛苦，不過最後老公都陪我走完全程，痛咗咁耐見到bb咩都抵返晒。

我同你一樣返到家第一天就好唔習慣，突然多左個bb，自己由大肚婆變左做一個坐月婆，好唔慣，不過我無請工人，只係媽咪來幫手，但媽咪都唔習慣，因為無係我家住過~亦未用過我家的廚房，結果大家都拿手唔成世咁，雖然99都想來幫手，但係我就勁唔鐘意，我知道bb係佢第一個孫，佢好開心亦好鐘意bb，但我就好唔想見到佢，好唔想佢掂bb，覺得佢咩都唔識，點照顧我個仔姐，我都知道係我自己問題，但無法，結果第一日出院係家，就大喊左一場，到第二日一樣如是，不停喊，喊到收唔到聲，嚇到健康院既姑娘馬上比我見醫生，但我自己個心真係唔想喊的....之後個兩日bb就入左院照燈，無人上來我家煩，我心情又好返d，到bb出院，我就無再喊，心情亦比之前好返好多，健康院既醫生話，生完頭十日既情緒都會比較差，因為荷爾蒙突然既轉變喎~而家心情好返見到bb又開心，老公又開心~一家三口感覺好幸福。

不過我老公就無你老公咁好有一星期假喇，老公只係可以陪我生同陪我出院，其他日子都係媽咪陪我，不過老公放工返屋企就好乖，又洗碗，又打掃，晚上仲餵奶，我都覺得佢好辛苦，佢成個人落晒型，我見到都心痛~不過就真係好sweet，老公咁錫我同bb，老公多謝你呀!!!希望我地三口子繼續幸福，迪迪仔快高長大。

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

touimiya,

多謝你分享呀! :-P 睇黎你真係同我有d似...以前我都唔信原來情緒呢樣嘢, 真係唔到你控制架. 我一直都以為我陀果10個月入面, 日日都咁happy, 點會有抑鬱呢樣嘢, 但係真係不知不覺間出現咗, 幸好情況唔算太犀利.

我老公無陪到我生呀, 因為醫院最後話我因為bb係用真空吸輔助生產而唔俾佢入黎陪生. :cry: 到我出院果日, 佢又因為公司多嘢做, 所以接唔到我. 所以可能由果一刻開始, 我已經有不安感. 好彩佢响我出院之後陪番我1個禮拜, 咁先好d, 如果果陣, 我日日都淨係同工人一齊, 我諗我會嚴重好多. (因為我見到個工人當正我個女係佢生咁, 我就火都黎埋.

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其實仲有因為坐月限制多多, 更加令我心情差. 岩岩生完, 有好多朋友send sms 祝賀我, 但我大部份都無覆人. 可能呢個都有關係架, 原來同朋友傾吓電話, 傾吓計, 真係可以舒緩一下情緒. 就算而家我上bk, 無人同我傾, 我自己打哂我心入面嘅感受出黎, 都可以當係一種宣洩.

係呀, 我都好似你咁, 呢2日心情'正常'番d, 見到bb, 真係好開心, 有莫名嘅滿足感, 好開心有佢嘅出現. :-P 佢俾一個笑容我, 我已經心都甜哂.

touimiya, 我哋一定要努力呀!

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

睇完minimon.touimiya嘅分享,我雖然未生(聽日係頂產期了),因我都發覺自我放產假後由於冇人陪(home得我一個)個人情緒都好down,成日擔心生完以後會點呢?99,mami有時打黎傾2句我都嫌佢地煩,老公又話一生完要過99度坐月我就諗起都忟憎(其實99對我唔係差就長氣同煩d咋),我好擔心到我生咗bb呢個情況會比2位仲嚴重呀... :-( :-( :-(

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

係呀, 其實baby blue 好多人都有架, 我都有架, 係好正常, 唔好咁擔心呀, 多d同丈夫, 家人, 朋友傾下計, 遲d 帶同bb 去一d playgroups, coffee groups 咁, 就會開心好多架喇! 最好就係可以同有同年紀既bb 既媽媽有sharings (like BK here)...

其實我想係度分享我生產日既一個巧合, 我bb出世個日剛考係我地既wedding anniversary, 又咁岩係我midwife 既wedding anniversary. 所以我地全部人係產房慶祝埋...哈哈....What a coincidence.

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發表於 05-11-20 02:48 |只看該作者

Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

AKLAMY,又會咁啱bb咁識揀中你地wedding anniversary出世嘅

bb意味着:「以後你地wedding anniversary又係我生日,唔駛旨意掉低我二人世界呀,年年都要有我份...」haha

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發表於 05-11-20 12:25 |只看該作者

Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

yuna888,

唔知你睇唔睇到我呢個post, 因為你今日預產期. 其實你而家已經察覺到自己有唔開心, 就更加之可以警惕自己生完之後要保持開朗. 同埋多d將你心入面嘅唔開心同人講, 老公又好, 朋友都好, 因為屈住响個心面真係會更加嚴重架.

祝你開開心心生個開心bb. :-P

yuna888 寫道:
睇完minimon.touimiya嘅分享,我雖然未生(聽日係頂產期了),因我都發覺自我放產假後由於冇人陪(home得我一個)個人情緒都好down,成日擔心生完以後會點呢?99,mami有時打黎傾2句我都嫌佢地煩,老公又話一生完要過99度坐月我就諗起都忟憎(其實99對我唔係差就長氣同煩d咋),我好擔心到我生咗bb呢個情況會比2位仲嚴重呀... :-( :-( :-(

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

minimon,我仲未作動ar....好多謝你嘅關心,我會盡量警惕自己ga la...不過有時情緒我都好難控制,我平時都算係情緒幾易波動慨人,有左bb仲嚴重.加上依家等生老公冇時間陪我,有時放エ返到嚟佢都好倦,我唔想打擾佢令佢休唔到息..不過我盡量叫friends陪我傾下電話相信會好d........... :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

我b仔都係同你b女同一日! 你b女幾點出生呀?

看完你的分享, 仲以為你講緊我, 我的情況跟你差不多, 我都預左生仔好painful, 我諗住自己唔會嗌, 點知最後(2度之後)狂嗌. 我係一個好樂觀的人, 都冇想過自己會變成咁!平日我一個人照顧bb, 下午媽咪同bb沖涼同煮野俾我食, 但我晚上勁唔夠訓, 同埋我係喂人奶, 阿b成日食唔飽, 食完一放落床就喊, 覺得係自己唔好, 令到阿b唔飽. 我仲日日對住老公喊話自己唔好, 晚上驚阿b喊嘈到老公, 因為佢要每朝6點幾起身返工(佢只係放到4 日假咋!), 所以晚上都不敢叫佢喂奶.

現在已經好些, 阿b唔飽就即刻補奶粉! 我相信多d分享會令自己知道唔單止自己遇到這些問題, 原來好多mami都係咁.

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henhen 寫道:
我b仔都係同你b女同一日! 你b女幾點出生呀?

看完你的分享, 仲以為你講緊我, 我的情況跟你差不多, 我都預左生仔好painful, 我諗住自己唔會嗌, 點知最後(2度之後)狂嗌. 我係一個好樂觀的人, 都冇想過自己會變成咁!平日我一個人照顧bb, 下午媽咪同bb沖涼同煮野俾我食, 但我晚上勁唔夠訓, 同埋我係喂人奶, 阿b成日食唔飽, 食完一放落床就喊, 覺得係自己唔好, 令到阿b唔飽. 我仲日日對住老公喊話自己唔好, 晚上驚阿b喊嘈到老公, 因為佢要每朝6點幾起身返工(佢只係放到4 日假咋!), 所以晚上都不敢叫佢喂奶.

現在已經好些, 阿b唔飽就即刻補奶粉! 我相信多d分享會令自己知道唔單止自己遇到這些問題, 原來好多mami都係咁.

我同你一樣都係餵人奶, 都係好怕佢食夜奶時不停咁喊而嘈醒人, 我唯一既絶招係放佢同我一齊訓, 佢一叫我就即刻比佢食(比佢啜), 塞住佢把口, 佢食一陣又訓番,咁我又訓, 不過醫生護士同埋d書都講話佢地大約個半月左右會開始有規律的睡眠時間, 咁我地就可以舒服dd架啦.

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

yuna888,
你今日點呢? 有d 動靜未呀? All the best to your coming delivery...會好快架喇~~ take care.

係呀, bb 出世同我地既wedding anniversary 同一日, 咁我husband 話我地會改為係相識紀念日慶祝, 咁就唔使同佢既birthday party 撞日....哈哈....

yuna888 寫道:
AKLAMY,又會咁啱bb咁識揀中你地wedding anniversary出世嘅
bb意味着:「以後你地wedding anniversary又係我生日,唔駛旨意掉低我二人世界呀,年年都要有我份...」haha

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

henhen and tweety,
我都可以係呢度分享下有關初生bb 既feeding and resting 情況, general speaking 有兩種feeding schedules (demand feeding and control feeding), Demand feeding 係bb 話要飲就飲 (即佢waking time 時), 而 control feeding 係由care takers (e.g. mum) 決定幾時餵食!

因為小bb 出世未有日夜之分, 同時又要frequent feeding (特別係體重較輕的bb), 所以要大人幫助佢地發展規律既feeding and resting time.體重輕的bb needs to be fed more frequently.

我三個小朋友都是選用control feeding 的, 我每隔3小時餵佢一次, 就算佢未訓醒我都會搞醒佢餵, 所以24小時餵8次,等佢地知道係有規律的, Benefits of control feeding (baby has the sense of security, can predict what is going to happen next, not crying that much cos of the above). 所以佢地三個都好少喊, 我又有得休息!

我大仔8 weeks slept over night, 個女 10 weeks slept over night, 唔知呢個會幾時, 但佢昨晚已經skipped 深夜既一餐 (3 am), 所以我可以訓7 hrs. 唔知佢係咪開始sleeps over night, 但我估唔會咁快, 因為average sleeping over night 既時間係 8- 10 weeks (according to books).

P/S 當然demand feeding 都有它的好處, 但我個人選用control feeding..

I am a fully breastfeeding mum too, 餵大仔到6個月, 餵個女到17個半月, 今次想餵到2 歲...所以我地一定要有休息, 營養先可以有quality milk...

Happy breastfeeding....互免! All the best...

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

AKLAMY,

咁你三個鐘頭餵一次, 會唔會隔得太開呀? 咁每次餵幾耐?? 係咪埋身餵??

我都想用control feeding,但怕佢一喊就成家人起晒身咁睇佢, 所以呢兩個星期我用了demand feeding.

可否再講多少少具體的例子

tweety

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

touimiya, minimon, 你們的分享實在太感動la, 我一路睇一流眼淚.
我係14/11 生

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AKLAMY 寫道:
yuna888,
你今日點呢? 有d 動靜未呀? All the best to your coming delivery...會好快架喇~~ take care.

係呀, bb 出世同我地既wedding anniversary 同一日, 咁我husband 話我地會改為係相識紀念日慶祝, 咁就唔使同佢既birthday party 撞日....哈哈....
Nothing happen

連我公司個maneger佢原本預產期係24/11尋晚都生咗喇...
可能我托得高啩...
你husband都好有心思喎..咁就唔怕撞日冇二人世界la...

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tweetycheung,
Hm.....等我試下講我既例子, 睇下會唔會具體d...(sorry for that I am not good at writing).

My baby is fed every three hourly (e.g. 12am,3am,6am, 9am,12noon,3pm,6pm,9pm,12am...)

I feed him (埋身餵 every time) before chaning his nappy cos' sometimes he poos during the feeding.

I feed him each side for about 10-15 minutes (feed him one side then burp him, play with him for a little while (talking), then put him into another side, burp him)

Change his nappy before putting him back to his cot.

The whole process takes about 30-45 minutes (sometimes an hour if he drinks lots)

He goes straight back to sleep once I put him into his cot, so that means he has 2 whole hours to sleep before the next feed.

You said that "但怕佢一喊就成家人起晒身咁睇佢" , I understand this is quite difficult, so I think it is good to have everyone share the same standard how to help the young baby to achieve "feed and rest" . It is important that everyone agrees with those standards otherwise, arguements might arise!

Also, babies cry aren't necessary that they are hungry, if you feed him everytime he cries, he might develop replying on your breasts everytime he cries (seeking for security), or you might frustrate your baby even more if his/her cry doesn't relate to the hunger (maybe something else such as dirty nappy, wind, too hot, sick...etc.). So, he /she ends up cries more (since they can't communicate with us by talking yet...only by crying)!

Happy breastfeeding...

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Re: 0511媽媽產後分享

個b未滿月可以用你個方法(3.6.9.12)??

點樣由每句鐘餵半小時轉為你個方法呢??

thanks,
tweety

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