I am a working mother with a maid. BB loves the maid because she is nice to BB. I only take care of BB on Sundays when my maid is on leave. These few weeks, sometime when I am going out, BB will scream and cry - seems don't want me to leave. I hear the cries even after the door closed. Do your BBs have such "separation anxiety" yet?
I let BB see me off at door by waving hand and flying kiss since she's 4 -5 months old and every morning I will tell her I am leaving for work. Before that, we play and hug for 5 minutes. So far she smiles when I leave.
Very rare case, eg, the hugging time is short, or for reason unknown, she will reject going back to maid :cry: . I will explain to her (though not knowing if she understands or not.... )Then I will pass her sometime, eg, tissue, toy to the maid to settle her down. Then say goodbye and leave.
I seldom leave her crying when I depart, because I think it's harming her emotion and reinforces her bad feeling. So, I have "buffer time" to depart home, ie, I usually depart earlier than I need so that in case she needs some pacifying, I can stay for a while
Don't know if she will have separation anxiety...babies are changing every day ?-(
summy好似識分甘...我返工佢會 :-x 但唔喊... 我..平時d姑姐返工佢會byebye手....我知佢唔開心
if 我同|babi都換哂衫...佢一定要跟& :-(
when i back home..佢會走來門口拍手叫mama...
見到babi都會叫baba .....
入左房or toilet 佢都會拍門叫mama
)Then I will pass her sometime, eg, tissue, toy to the maid to settle her down. Then say goodbye and leave. 
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我..平時d姑姐返工佢會byebye手....我知佢唔開心 
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