I have 2 daughters already, one 5, one 3.
My husband is 幾代單傳。My husband wants me to have one more baby as he likes boys. But he says that if the third one is still girl, he will not ask me to have the fourth one.
In the opposite, I don't like boys at all... But a fortune teller once told me that I can have 3 kids in total (but of course I can choose not to have nowadays with preventive measures).
I am a full time mother with a maid to help me out. Good family financials and my home have rooms for one more maid and baby.
I was diagnosed with Thyroid cancer start of the year and is recovering (luckily it is very early stage and all cancer cells should have been removed by surgery). Before this incidence, my mother always asked me to have one more baby, otherwise I haven't finished my duty i owed to my husband's family for not having a son. But after the cancer thing, she asks me not to have any more babies as she is worried about my health.
I am 34 and my hubby is 38 already. If you were me, will you be pregnant again?
This is one of my concern too.. In my own family, my parents leave everything to my brother and nothing for daughters. Personally, I don't mind as my parents also treated me very well. Just Chinese traditionally won't pass on wealth to daughters.
Now my 2 daughters will get half of our fortunes and love, but with a son, my hubby may give all his money to the son and I don't know whether my daughters will be unsatisfied with this kind of arrangement.
My hubby does love kids very much. Everyday after work, the first thing he will do is playing and kissing with my daughters.
um...i think i will first consult with my dr to see if my health condition is ok to have one more baby. if he says ok, i will. not because i want to finish the business with my husband, just because i think if financial is not a problem+ i am a full time housewife, why not to have one more kid. i like BIG family no matter it would be a baby boy or girl.
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