Thank you for response ar... 其實我打中文都好慢o架,不過想seek for more help, so I try to type in Chinese law..
Are you a full time mom? Why you said 你好羨慕我呀.....? 我成日都好想多啲陪佢哋,但成日都好有心,但又倦,所以好想大家比啲心得我.我有咩比 你羨慕?
So do you agree that 體力係練返黎? Actually, I have tired to train up myself by different areas, like what you have mentioned, eg. play with them everynight, tell story everynight, but maybe I did not enough la...so still have a far distance from my expectation to be a full time mum with lots of energy.
我都有陪佢哋睡覺架. 哈哈,有一樣野比你講中,我好鍾意行bb的product, e.g. book sales, bb stuffs, etc.
You said "Hire local maid to work on holidays.", 係咪指a full time mum, can employ a local maid to work on holiday, then she can have a rest on that day ar..?
1. I am a full-time mon w/one son . He is now 3.7 of age.
2. I admire u as u still have 體力 to go to shopping... or price/ product comparsion. It do waste u lots of 體力. Instead, it should be spend on your kids, say take some courses to understand their stage of growth.
I tried shopping on warehouse sales when I was pregeant. Some baby suits bought still not yet to be worn. Now, I will buy at any one Public market or shop when he is really in need.
3. Every Sat., it is my own hoilday i seldom do houseworks that will let my local miad to finish. She will help me for house cleaning. During the few hours, I take a nap w/ my son.
4. Every Sunday, I will plan the coming weekdays schedule. Say,
Sun...... Buy materials that will be used on Mon. & Tue
Mon...... Serve Chinese soup. Ask kids to help u to do simple cleaning, peeling or pouring action. They must feel it fun. My son knew how to cook rice, cut carrot.
Just buy fresh seafood at the market if need
Tue....... Accompany w/kid after work to do anything at night. No need to spend time on supermarket as u did it on Sun
Wed...... Go to the market to buy materials for Wed & Thur. Busy to do processings on food for two days. Not to cook food for two days but do some preparation for Thur, say seasonings. This day, u may try to do simple food, say steam.
Thur...... Accompany w/ kid again. Prepare simple chinese soup again. But the prepartion time for dinner should be shorter.
Fri..... Just buy fresh fish for my son... I eat the food left on Thur. Also visit to supermarket to prepare for Sat & Sun.
Sat/ Sun...... Go out for dinner/lunch or noodles....
It is my draft day schedule...it must have missings as spot record.
There is noboby to assist me to take care my son for those 3 more years, even I was at fever. My husband never take a bath for his son. My friends told me my shoulders is becoming wider....
So, 體力must 係 練返黎... apart from u are physically sick. U may consult the Dr. to see any problems. Pls. take some Vitamins to replenish your energy.
u will need a helper at the first module... afterwards your boby will be stronger.
Hopes this help u. Be a full time mon, your kids will be most wealthiest one.