bblaw, I got mastits 6 times in 7 months. I understand, it is a terrible experience.
Although I am so afraid to have it again, I insist breast feeding bec. I know no matter how good the formula is, mother milk is always the best choice for baby. Formula 只是模彷/扮mother milk. Formula is not bad but if I can give the best to baby, I don’t have a reason to stop bor.
Like many working BF mom, I have encountered and have overcome quite a lot of problems on breastfeeding, I really don’t want to give up giving baby the 1st best present in her life.
我都好唔開心!!
身边冇人support!好唔明why people always say 6 months is enough,又話bb大咗人奶已冇營養。
我老公又話我餵到走火入魔,只顧pump奶,其他日常事務都理唔倒,又唔夠瞓!
我係全泵型,返工要輪班。我都係用食飯時間pump奶。但我只有半個鐘食飯,所以我會用嗰半個鐘來pump奶,食bread 來代替食飯。D同事就覺得我咁辛苦做乜,自己都冇啖好食点餵人奶!有時太忙冇飯食就冇得pump,為免谷奶谷得太緊要(9個多hour 冇pump),唯有放工pump埋先走,返到屋企成6点幾(我這天返早班 7am)。我老公話我又係為咗pump奶攪到自己咁累!!
返中班夜晚放工11pm,沖完涼pump埋奶1点幾瞓,第二朝返7am我5点幾就要起身pump奶後返工。
pump奶確實影响我日常生活,外出前或約人前必先安排好pump奶時間才可行。
其實我唔怕辛苦,但都唔想影响夫妻感情,我老公少咗話我,但我知佢把不滿放喺心度,費事再話我咁多。
我係咪太自私?只focus on bf and bb 身上而不理其他人?
:cry: :cry:
Don't give up! I also have to shift duty. Sometime I go home at 1100 and sleep at 0100 then pump milk at 0530 then go to work. Sometime my son crying at night. I just sleep only 2 hours per day. And I have 45 mins lunch hour included pump milk. That is OK. I still insist in BF because here (baby-kingdom) have a lot of appreciated friends. I must support u,OK!
thanks for all of u!!
我仍然會努力,因為我唔捨得停住。
其實個情意結係我自己嗰度。阿女已經唔識得埋身,佢唔需要嗰種bonding feeling。阿女又肯食奶粉,基本上我隨時停都得。
但係停bf 我怕bb容易病,到時辛苦之餘加上肉赤!
不過,始終有一日阿女要靠自己身体嘅抵抗力,我唔可以一直庇護佢。
多謝各位奶媽 :wink: