I think eating at home with 公筷 is not convenient, so I'm thinking of not having dinner at the table together. But my 99 said we should treat her as a family wor .... don't give her a feeling she's a maid wor... I think it's rubbish of what my 99 said, the reason is:
1) I don't see not eating together = not treating her as a family member. it's not the only way to show her she's not part of the family
2) if treat her as a family member by eating together, why do u need a 公筷 with your family members? :evil:
my ex-yan told me she wanted to eat at the kitchen, I think she will be more 'free". I gave her very big portion & usually she eat them all. After 2 months, she gains 20 lbs & she started keept kit & told me not to give her big portion. But she always finish her meal within 10 minutes.
my new bun also eat at kitchen she takes 30 mins. for her meal eveytime. (we need 10 mins. only). She said she don't how to use chopsticks wor.
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