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發表於 07-1-31 15:46 |只看該作者

我女是完美主義, 怕失敗, 教教我應怎様教導她呢?

Dear All moms,


Please help me.

因為在Phonic Test 只得80, 她便好upset, 但上次100分, 她就很開心, 我應怎辧呢???!!! ?-( ?-( ?-( :cry: :cry: :cry:


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發表於 07-1-31 22:03 |只看該作者

Re: 我女是完美主義, 怕失敗, 教教我應怎様教導她呢?

佢幾歲?
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


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發表於 07-1-31 23:52 |只看該作者

Re: 我女是完美主義, 怕失敗, 教教我應怎様教導她呢?

我個仔而家讀小一都係100分就好開心,無100就唔開心,我就同佢講只要佢盡左力讀就得,到而家佢上次攞68分都無唔開心,問佢點解,佢話我已經好努力讀,但因為听唔切所以得68,所以我無唔開心,因為我有温書。不過一定要唔好話佢,咁佢先會明白,因為如果大人好緊張小朋友成績,小朋友就會有壓力。


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發表於 07-2-1 06:34 |只看該作者

Re: 我女是完美主義, 怕失敗, 教教我應怎様教導她呢?

I think it is normal for anyone to be the winner. I think it is very important for the parent to explain to the child that there is always up and down in life. I know it is very hard but we must try to explain as no one will be the winner all time.

eg, my daughter is 4yrs old and we play UNO or other card games. When she wins, she laughs. But when she lost, she throw away everything and refused to play anymore. I told her that it is a game and there must someone win and lose. Now whenever she lost, she needs to say "I will beat you next time, otherwise we will stop playing further. I also told her "practice makes perfect". She seems understand and behaves very well eventhough she lose. Now she also asked me to say "I will beat you next time" when I lose.



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發表於 07-2-1 16:34 |只看該作者

Re: 我女是完美主義, 怕失敗, 教教我應怎様教導她呢?

Dear all moms,

Thank you vey much!

My GiGi is 5 year old, she is in K3, I think I need to speak more to her.

Anyway, thanks again.


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發表於 07-2-1 21:47 |只看該作者

Re: 我女是完美主義, 怕失敗, 教教我應怎様教導她呢?

xother已經講哂我要講嘅嘢!
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


洋房

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發表於 07-2-2 03:35 |只看該作者

Re: 我女是完美主義, 怕失敗, 教教我應怎様教導她呢?

解釋比佢聽呢個世界上無人未試過失敗的
舉一些例子比佢聽
告訴她檢討一下自己失敗的原因下次再努力

如果你的女兒年齡很細就要同佢傾多d計
講多d佢就會明白


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