Same here! Don't be mad! You're not alone!
We yelled at each other almost every day for why not you doing this ....
I've been begging him to change the crib sheet for BB but he hasn't done it for almost 2 months! Can you believe it? He said BB is already lucky to have a crib to sleep! Can you believe it's from the mouth of a highly educated dad?!
Whenever I asked him to help doing something, he said he's not available or busy helping our older kid's homework while letting our boy playing with his phone or computer game!
Exactly, he said he didn't need to do anything at home when he was in HK!
I said same for me ... but I learned how to cook and do everything since I came to the States!