Yea ! But my husband will say cuz I go out to play wor thats why he can go out to play too. I am really upset that he is too selfish. Everytime go out to play and play.....sigh!
sigh !! Have you seen my article? I have the same problem too. I've talked to him but he said he know what he is doing and he said even if he goes out to drink, it doesn't mean he is cheating on me. He told my friend if I keep on arguing on this topic with him, that will make him wanna go out more. He said if I don't argue with him, he will still miss me and my BB while playing outside. I really don't agree and I don't understand why men will think like that. I've just talked to him about cooling down our relationship the day before to see weather or not we should still be together cuz I really can't stand it. Ask him to brink you out also, so every weekend leave your kid(s) to your parents or in-laws then go out with him. I guess not long, he will go out less and less. At least after our talk, my husbund said he will ask me out every time he goes out. Of course you can choose go or not go if he asks you, but remember, you'll HAVE to go if he DOESN'T ask you.
I think women has to understand how men think first. Everyone has stress in work or family. Women choose to talk while men choose going out with friends. We all try to release it in certain way.
yes, it is true men dont like women bugging them all times and I think the best way is ask him to be fair, so if FRI for him, then you can go out on SAT if you think that will make you feel better.
As a woman, I totally agree with what tweeties said. That's really what woman thinks. But for man, they have a weird brain and they think totally different. I've said the same thing as tweeties said b4 also but what he said definitely upset me. He said when he was small, his mom always bug him from going out. So he thinks he is a grown up man now and he doesn't like to be controlled anymore. He said he know what he is doing and he didn't cheat on me while he goes out. For me I don't think going out every weekend is acceptable. Just because he is a grown up man he has the responsibility to spend time with his family more. It's not he married me then make his baby and then leave everything to me so he can go out and relax. It's really not fair to me at all. But that's really what man thinks. Even tho you don't like to hang out with you hubby's friends, tell him ask you out together. But don't black face or anything. Participate and play with his friends. Then sooner or later (maybe long or maybe not long), he will go out less. Cuz man doesn't like to bring his wife out to play normally. But if you be nice to everyone and did everything, he can't say he don't want to bring you out also and in his mind he doesn't really want to go out with you so he will turn out going out less. try try
You know,I have tried these I mean I went out with his friends and play but sometimes I am so tired cuz I work for the whole day then play with his friends. Just like in the "Easter" 5 days holiday. He went out for 3 nites and came home at 6 am. I really hate these happen but he didnt listen to me. I told him we have a kid we should behave ourselves but he said he likes it. I want to divorce.......but I am afraid about my baby. I am afraid hisfamily will take my baby. His mother is very bad always want to get my baby and follow her to back to Canada.
我明白他玩的心態，因為以往我單身時我也喜歡玩玩。但一有家庭，就要有所調較。我可以接受他玩到零晨2-3才回家，但不能接受他天光才回來。他放假便睡至中午。很討厭。他還說: 他好心帶我出去玩......
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