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發表於 07-2-27 21:19 |只看該作者

唔好意思借個位呻下

我養到個仔太瘦?
自從我一家移民到澳洲之後,我奶奶每一次打電話比我o地都唔會有乜話題,通常都係問一d幾無聊o既問題,例如:
"有冇比飯個仔食呀?"
"點解佢o甘瘦呀?"
"識得去toilet未?"
我覺得佢成日問真係比好多壓力我,最慘係每次o係電話都同我講大伯個仔(六個月大)好肥好叻,大嫂餵人奶好成功.....
頭先打電話比奶奶o既姐姐(我老公個姨媽)度拜年,點知佢問我:"做乜養到個仔o甘瘦?"....
可能我個仔真係瘦o左d(大約十三點五kg).但我同佢過醫生,醫生話:"佢食得,玩得,ZZzz得,身體ok,要o甘肥做乜?"
我撫心自問,我從來都照顧得佢o地好好;以前有媽咪幫手而家無,但我仍然盡力去做一個好媽咪.
我唔明點解佢唔會關心o下我o地離鄉別井o既生活,而要成日將d孫同新抱o來比較? ?-( ?-(
返而我父母同d細佬就日日打電話比我o地,叫我o地事事小心,又叫我o地加油!!
唔通佢真係o甘唔鍾意我?
Anyway,我唔會再理會or mind佢do野,因為我已經對佢非常"心淡",但我仍然會尊重佢因為佢係我老公個亞媽...
唔好意思,阻o左你o地d時間,我都係想呻o下姐

~我有一個好老公同三個小寶貝~

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發表於 07-2-27 22:21 |只看該作者

Re: 唔好意思借個位呻下

大眼媽咪，
我屋企人都係成日話我小雪瘦，甘小雪又真係瘦，因為早產，無法啦....我聽到都會有壓力ga...但係我好阿Q

所以我聽完就算，唔記得左.....因為成日阿Q....所以已經有嚴重既老人痴呆症 :mrgreen:

My Two Princess

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發表於 07-2-28 08:43 |只看該作者

Re: 唔好意思借個位呻下

Hi Veron,

人地講既野，唔洗太上心。 In the end, you know what you're doing is best for Hayden and Cynthia and that's the most important.

And if they ever bring up the weight issue again, tell them that:

For the first 6 months of life, most infants will gain about 1 ounce per day and grow in length by about 1/3 to 1/2 an inch per week. By the time an infant is 4 to 6 months old, his or her birth weight will have doubled. From 6 to 12 months old, the rate of weight gain slows to about 1/2 an ounce per day.

From 1 until 5 years old, weight gain will have slowed to about 5 pounds per year and height will increase by 3 to 5 inches per year. At this age, toddlers appear to lose their "baby fat" and thin out. In particular, 18-month to two-year-old children are going through a period of slow physical growth, weight gain will not be great.

Devlin's weight has always been in the 70th percentile in the growth chart and his height is about 75th percentile. Right now, his height is still in the 75th percentile but his weight has dropped to the 50th percentile. The doctor said "he looks healthy and alert to me. The most important thing is that he meets all the developmental milestones that he is supposed to reach for his age. I don't see any reason to be concerned with his weight."

Devlin is very active and doesn't stop for a moment during his waking hours. When he was still crawling, he crawled at 100 miles an hour and now he's walking (or more precisely, running) at 100 miles an hour!!

Here are some photos of him and you will see that he's getting skinnier and skinnier

4 months old

11 months old

14 months old

Cheers,

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發表於 07-2-28 10:04 |只看該作者

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Devlin媽媽.
Devlin越大越瘦就越大越形仔,每個靚仔靚女都系越大越瘦嫁.健康就得啦!

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發表於 07-2-28 10:30 |只看該作者

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大眼媽咪,

唔洗理其他人講野, 其實邊有人會唔理自己仔囡, 我便寧願仔囡瘦好過, 太肥對健康同長高都唔好, 順其自然, 其他人成日都吹毛求庛, 唔好理佢地, 最緊要一家人, 開開心心, 自己保重身體!!

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發表於 07-2-28 10:33 |只看該作者

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Veron,
老人家食飽無野做就諗下個孫肥定瘦:tongue:,做老人真寫意.

佢地無心傷到你嫁,唔好擺系心到.

昨日睇新聞報告,英國有位媽咪比政府告,因為佢養到個仔仔太肥有"虐待"成份,個仔仔八歲己經98kg,話對個仔身體唔好.依家分開左兩母子,個仔去左收容所住,日日跳彈床減肥,媽咪就等緊比政府告佢.你話肥仔是否好慘呢? :cry:

你99住NZ定HK呀?

下次佢地再話你時,你就話個仔正在修身,修修下過左火,依家就正幫佢增返D,但不能增太多,因為唔岩standard會拉去再跳彈床修身嫁,到時Hayden仔就好慘好可憐.你試諗下大人想增肥定系減肥容易呢? ?-( 小朋友都一樣姐.難得Hayden仔咁fit.大左如果過肥叫佢見到美食都唔准佢食就"陰公"D羅.話比你99和啊"三姑"

知Hayden仔唔"瘦"系"fit",佢取得全維省"至精叻至fit既大眼形仔"Gold Award tim.佢地得嫻就泥你樹探下"形仔"啦!

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發表於 07-2-28 11:03 |只看該作者

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好多謝o甘多位姊妹o既留言,睇完忍唔住喊添,真冇用

雖然o係OZ揍小朋友真係好辛苦,但有你o地o既支持,我唔會放棄,我會繼續比心機揍Hayden & Cynthia,等佢o地健健康康o甘成長!!

我會努力加油o架啦!!

~我有一個好老公同三個小寶貝~

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發表於 07-2-28 12:54 |只看該作者

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BAMUM88,

你講得對，最緊要健康。 Devlin不單止好似隻馬騮咁通屋走，佢一聽到音樂就會頭拎拎，un身un勢，非常攪笑。

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Devlin媽媽,
Devlin仔好有表演欲和音樂天份喎!

培育佢成為明日"歌神"或"天皇"啦!我做佢第一個Fans,又系最"長青"和"長情"果種播!! :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

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發表於 07-2-28 15:02 |只看該作者

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Veron,

奇實小朋友千奇唔好咁肥,現在好多國家都開始要control佢地d小朋友唔好太肥,又有好多醫學report話小朋友太肥奇實係唔健康,我屋企就有個真實case.我先生就係由細肥到大.我99話以前佢一喊就比奶佢,所以佢好細個以經好肥,人人都話佢得意,可愛,令我99更加比多d野比佢食,到了現在就慘啦,我先生試過好多不同的方法減肥,唔係因為佢貪靚,而係因為健康,醫生要佢減肥,要我先生有血壓高就係因為佢太肥,and 有其他身體上的小毛病都是他太肥.但醫生話佢減肥就比其他人困難,因為佢由細到大都咁肥,你可以講吓我先生個case比你99聽,肥都未必是好事.你唔好唔開心啦!小朋友健康就okay,肥瘦都不是太大問題.

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發表於 07-2-28 18:54 |只看該作者

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YY9,
估唔到你老公系肥哥哥喎!仲估你老公系一位高高瘦瘦既形男tim.

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發表於 07-2-28 19:18 |只看該作者

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YY9,

Thanks for your support!!! But now, I got no time and no MOOD to chat with HER again!! I will only do my best!!! If I tell her 肥都未必是好事, then she will starts compare her grandchildren to each other again...I don't want to make Hayden feel sad (I know he can feel it)

By the way, I though your husband is very thin....well...I FEEL....hahhahaha

~我有一個好老公同三個小寶貝~

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veron,
依家先睇到呢個topic tim,其實10對有9對都會有婆媳問題,想當年我嫁仲要同埋佢住,結果辛苦到屈係厠所到喊,每個老人家都古老思想,認為細路要肥肥白白才健康,佢地唔明時代改變了,食物也改變了,真係唔好將佢地說話擺心上,當然幾時最錫自己都係自己屋企人嫁啦,佢連hayden有食物敏感不能隨便亂吃都沒想到,証明佢不夠體諒你們,不過老人家十個有十個都係咁,下次再問你就話佢無法啦,佢對食物敏感,食得既範圍好細,所以係肥唔到去邊,你話醫生都話佢好健康,叫佢唔洗擔心囉,一係叫佢地(99&姑奶)教你要無旦白質同花生既食物,仲可以整咩比佢食,扮下虛心求教,咁樣講佢地就無野講嫁啦.呢個方法好work嫁,我係過來人,好明白.hehe講d佢地都無辦法既野去封住佢地把口

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發表於 07-3-1 10:35 |只看該作者

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無錯我家有個大肥仔,veron,我都好明白,有時99真係有佢自己一套的想法,你講物都無用,有時仲意為你想害佢咁,總之就係做人新袍就艱難. :-( :-(

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