i can accept gay or les as friends, as they have no immediate relation with me - - - friends only. but i cannot accept my daughters as les, unacceptable for me. may be you may think that i have duplicate standard, but daughter is blood related, not friends. my sister-in-law once told me she had asked if her son had gf or not, she told him she does not mind her nationality, but please do not bring a male back to hk to see her .