I think we have to bear in mind that for babies, the first year of life is a time when they grow very rapidly. On average, a 3.2kg baby will end its first year at around 10kg, more than triple its birth weight. Growth slows down in the second year with, on average, two to three kilos added each year until the next major growth ‘spurt’ at puberty.
As mentioned above, growth slows down in the second year. This means toddlers often have small appetites and need less food. The amount eaten from day-to-day can change dramatically. Although this sometimes worries parents, this change is normal and doesn’t mean your child is being difficult or is unwell.
One third of parents worry that their child isn’t eating enough. Unless they are ill, a young child will never voluntarily starve themselves.
If your child seems healthy and energetic, then they are eating enough. If you are still concerned, keep an eye on how much food they actually eat over the day. Children tend to graze constantly, rather than restrict their eating to three meals per day like adults. You may be surprised how those little handfuls and snacks add up. For further reassurance, check your child’s growth and weight charts, or see your doctor or maternal and child health care nurse.
My son is 18 months old. He is also like that. I have to blend all the congee / ABC pasta into thick soup, so he will eat. I think he is too lazy to chew. Maybe u can blend the food into thick soup, too!!!